Huskerguy
Jul 16, 2009, 05:36 PM
I know a girl that works at a gas station I deliver the gas to. I finally called her when I was off work last week and asked her if she would like to have lunch with me. She said yes and we met at Applebees for lunch. When she gets there she tells me she should mention she does have a boyfriend. I asked her why she didn't let me know when I called. She said she still wanted to have lunch with me. We talked about our families, jobs, education and lives. I did ask about her boyfriend and she mentioned it wasn't very well and that he has some problems. I didn't ask too much more about him but I thought there was a pretty good chance we could still eventually date. We exchanged phone numbers and let each other go with a hug.
She ends up texting me at about 6pm the same night and says she was very surprised I asked her to lunch. She said she was speechless since 4pm trying to think of what to text me. She mentioned she did think about me last weekend. She said she just wished she knew what the future had in store for her (meaning her boyfriend situation). She said she didn't want to hurt me. We texted for awhile and I went to bed.
The next morning she texts me at 530am telling me good morning and to have a good day. We ended up texting back and forth all day long. Mainly about what was going on while she was working and asking me what made me so attracted to her. When she got off work she texted me saying she would think about me while she was doing her gas numbers tomorrow morning. I said I would think about her too and let her go. I ended up texting her again at like 7pm telling her I enjoyed feeling her through texting today and that I wanted to know when I could see her again(outside of work). She said she probably shouldn't and that she was sorry she dug us into this hole. I didn't respond right away so she texts me back asking if I was mad and if I hated her. I was wondering why after all day texting like we did she wouldn't agree to seeing me again so I told her I needed to be left alone and didn't text her back the rest of the night. Was this childish? I just felt like she was being a tease so I got pissed.
I ended up texting her the next day telling her that I couldn't do this as long as she had a boyfriend and that texting her the day before felt too much like a relationship but if she was ever single that I'd like her to keep me in mind. She texts me saying she was really sorry, that she enjoys talking to me but she does love her boyfriend and has a lot with him. She said she was sorry she hurt me. I texted back :) take care. I was actually really hurt but that's the only thing I could think to text. I didn't want to act like she hurt me.
I have known this girl for about 8 months and have always felt a connection with her in the store when I come there. We're both shy so it took me forever to finally ask her to lunch. She was surprised because I never really let her know that I was interested till I called. Before I called her I literally couldn't stop thinking about her for 2 weeks but always failed to tell her whenever I went into the store, so I finally just called her. I am worried that I have totally ruined it with her now. I know she liked me. From our lunch together up till I blew it with my childish text about wanting to be left alone. I feel like total crap about all this cause I feel so much for her. I didn't mean to make it seem like she has to ditch her boyfriend for me but I think that's what I did. So did I ruin any possible chance with her from all this? Does she think I'm a real weirdo with too deep of feelings for her right away? I need some words of encouragement to help me cope. I haven't talked to her for 2 days now since our texts. Thanks for listening!
She ends up texting me at about 6pm the same night and says she was very surprised I asked her to lunch. She said she was speechless since 4pm trying to think of what to text me. She mentioned she did think about me last weekend. She said she just wished she knew what the future had in store for her (meaning her boyfriend situation). She said she didn't want to hurt me. We texted for awhile and I went to bed.
The next morning she texts me at 530am telling me good morning and to have a good day. We ended up texting back and forth all day long. Mainly about what was going on while she was working and asking me what made me so attracted to her. When she got off work she texted me saying she would think about me while she was doing her gas numbers tomorrow morning. I said I would think about her too and let her go. I ended up texting her again at like 7pm telling her I enjoyed feeling her through texting today and that I wanted to know when I could see her again(outside of work). She said she probably shouldn't and that she was sorry she dug us into this hole. I didn't respond right away so she texts me back asking if I was mad and if I hated her. I was wondering why after all day texting like we did she wouldn't agree to seeing me again so I told her I needed to be left alone and didn't text her back the rest of the night. Was this childish? I just felt like she was being a tease so I got pissed.
I ended up texting her the next day telling her that I couldn't do this as long as she had a boyfriend and that texting her the day before felt too much like a relationship but if she was ever single that I'd like her to keep me in mind. She texts me saying she was really sorry, that she enjoys talking to me but she does love her boyfriend and has a lot with him. She said she was sorry she hurt me. I texted back :) take care. I was actually really hurt but that's the only thing I could think to text. I didn't want to act like she hurt me.
I have known this girl for about 8 months and have always felt a connection with her in the store when I come there. We're both shy so it took me forever to finally ask her to lunch. She was surprised because I never really let her know that I was interested till I called. Before I called her I literally couldn't stop thinking about her for 2 weeks but always failed to tell her whenever I went into the store, so I finally just called her. I am worried that I have totally ruined it with her now. I know she liked me. From our lunch together up till I blew it with my childish text about wanting to be left alone. I feel like total crap about all this cause I feel so much for her. I didn't mean to make it seem like she has to ditch her boyfriend for me but I think that's what I did. So did I ruin any possible chance with her from all this? Does she think I'm a real weirdo with too deep of feelings for her right away? I need some words of encouragement to help me cope. I haven't talked to her for 2 days now since our texts. Thanks for listening!