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rahul009
Jul 11, 2009, 01:58 AM
I had sex with my girlfriend a couple of months back. But I was very much surprised that neither she had bleeding which I can compromise with but I was able to insert in her very easily without any force and she says that it was her 1st time.Does it mean that she had sex with someone else earlier to me and please don't give silly answers that you should trust her. Ans me the fact if she had sex earlier with someone else

N0help4u
Jul 11, 2009, 04:32 AM
It sounds like she may have
Talk to her, tell her that it is okay if she tells you that she did. But don't push her because maybe she had a really bad experience that she doesn't want to remember. Just let her know the door is open for her to share and it would be nice that you can be open and honest with each other.
How old are you and her?

danielnoahsmommy
Jul 11, 2009, 04:35 AM
Not necessarily as she may have had experience with toys, or her own fingers. Some gals lose there hyman long before there first time! Why should it matter if she is with you now?

redhed35
Jul 11, 2009, 04:38 AM
Just to add to the other posts,if she was relaxed and stimulated,and you were gently.she probably did not feel pain.

shazamataz
Jul 11, 2009, 05:42 AM
I never bled when I lost my virginity and it wasn't that difficult to insert, uncomfortable but not hard.

She was more than probably just very comfortable with you and relaxed. Don't read into it too much.
And the trust issue needs to be addressed as she told you that she was a virgin and you aren't sure whether to believe her.

jenniepepsi
Jul 11, 2009, 09:07 AM
I agree, she may have, she may not have, there are so many ways she could have lost her hymen before sex. She could have also been as shaz said, very relaxed and stimulated and it went easily.

TALK TO HER. No sexual or romantic relationship will work if you don't talk to each other.

s_cianci
Jul 11, 2009, 09:16 AM
The physical condition of her vagina neither proves nor disproves virginity. All you have to go on is her word.

mugger
Jul 11, 2009, 05:45 PM
Not all girls are made the same, just as all guys are not put together the same. Some guys are bigger than others and the same goes for women.

Gemini54
Jul 12, 2009, 06:58 PM
I suspect that the real issue is not whether she's a virgin/or not, but whether you trust her word.

The state of her vagina will tell you very little - just using tampons can stretch the hymen. The classic 'bloody deflowering' of a virgin is mostly myth these days and a fantasy part of some men's imagination.

If you're determined to distrust her then there's not much hope for the relationship is these?

Fr_Chuck
Jul 12, 2009, 07:07 PM
What you said is not proof one way or another.

There is NO, and I do mean NO way for you to know.

And what if she has, does it matter

anymouse
Jul 12, 2009, 08:47 PM
I wouldn't worry about it... I dated a girl once that told me she was a virgin and she wanted to wait till we were married before we have sex... I found out from a buddy of mine about a guy she had been intimate and dating for six months before she met me... I talked to the guy then confronted her and she admitted she lied... she just was worried I would think she was a slut and not want to marry her... (yes girls will lie to get
What they want its not just a guy thing) It didn't bother me though cause when I found out we were having sex like rabbits everyday for months... but we broke up a little while later.

smoothy
Jul 13, 2009, 05:33 AM
There is no way to prove it at all, unless she turns up pregnant from a man that DNA proves can't be you.

Virgins don't always bleed... and just because she hasn't had sex doesn't mean she has to be tight.

You have to trust her, or let her go find a man that will.