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xXx-Elena-xXx
Jul 10, 2009, 01:57 PM
OK.. um hello.
Im having a problem..
I haven't seen my girlfriend in like 11 days and she hasn't called me or anything I've called her but her parents have disconected the phone beacause they don't trust her with it so.. idk.
Anyway how do I know if she really likes me?
We were friends for a long time and sometimes she would ignore me.. she would be talking to her other friends and she would ignore me the whole time..
But one day she didn't answer me.. she like didn't talk to me at all and um after school I just walked straight out of school and took the bus home but usually I stay there to tell her goodbye..
But I had a feeling she was going to call me and she did..
She said that she had to ignore me it was a test.. test?.
( we were still friends at this time)

Then through the phone she said " Do you like me?"
And I said yes I do..
Anyway.. she said she liked me to..
Then 2 days later on Monday (it was Friday when she called me)
Her friends were all pulling my arms saying come on come on!
Korina wants to talk to you..
( korina was my friend)
Just so you know)
Anyway I got to where she was at and we were all shy(me and her)
Then she asked me if I wanted to go out with her..
I said yes.. then after school she said see you later.. its been 11 days since we haven't seen each other.. thrugh her mail she said give me your email so I can add you on msn..
Then when it poped up it said
She wanted to be my friend but on her display name it said I love you eduardo.
Who's eduardo?. :(
Then we were talking about some new cds I got then I said id give her one then she said that's what friends are for.. friends?. :(
Then the day after we were talking on msn.. then she said I love you and then I got confused.. then she dedicated a photo to me it was cute.. it was a cuocake with bunny ears.. xD.. anyways I'm confused how do I know if she really like me or not?

Justwantfair
Jul 10, 2009, 01:59 PM
How old are you?

dreamingartist
Jul 10, 2009, 02:03 PM
Young enough to ride a bus.

My advice is enjoy life in HS but don't get too involved with the relationships you form. They will come and go and as long as you are true to your goals and your school work you will be fine. You won't know what true love is until you are older so don't dwell on the L word. This girl doesn't know what she wants and I am not sure you know what you want either, even if you think you do. Have fun, make friends and enjoy your life in H.S. because you will never get to do it again so make it count the first time.

mum2five
Jul 10, 2009, 02:05 PM
Bless - young love .
Perhaps you are better off trying to build upon your friendship before trying a relationship.
Enjoy getting to know each other better and just hanging out.
Perhaps neither of you are ready for a commitment just yet.

xXx-Elena-xXx
Jul 10, 2009, 02:05 PM
15

xXx-Elena-xXx
Jul 10, 2009, 02:08 PM
Hmm well we've been friends for a while..

mum2five
Jul 10, 2009, 02:11 PM
Well stay friends a lot longer is my advice and leave the relationship well alone.
If your girlfriend is not ready to admit whether she "loves you or just Likes you" you are better off staying mates.
I do not think at the age of 15 you should be worrying if she likes you or not , just be you and be there as and when she needs you and enjoy time together and you nevr know romance may blossom.
Do not try and force her into admitting if she wants a relationship with you - this may well scare her off.