I like women but married to a man. I can't find anybody who is into what I'm into. Why is this is it because people are afraid, or am I looking to hard. People don't look @ me as being bi. They think of me as a mans woman. I like men too don't get me wrong. So what do I need to do??

First off you need to talk to your husband about doing more activities together.
There is nothing wrong with liking other women but if it is merely an interests thing like you say then my suggestion would be to suggest to your husband some activities to do together.
If you like say... musicals, then see if he would be willing to come to one with you, or going to concerts, or reading the same book.

I like women but married to a man. I can't find anybody who is into what im into. Why is this is it because people are afraid, or am i looking to hard. people dont look @ me as being bi. They think of me as a mans woman. i like men too dont get me wrong. so what do i need to do???

I'm not certain I understand what the problem is. Are you looking for a relationship with a woman while you're married? Why is it important that people know you're bi? Perhaps it's time to let your husband know what's up with you... you should really let him know if you're trying to hook up with somebody else.