What can I do or say to spice up a six year marriage?

Are you male or female?

Spice up in what ways ?

Vacation, better sex life, what are your ages. Do you have children

Im pretty sure you mean sexuality because you ask DO or SAY right.HMMM I have no clue because you've probably done a lot in those six years more than I KNOW.gdluck

If you don't already, date nights! Just the two of you. No distractions.

I am a female my husband and I are 35&32 we have been married for six years and together 14 total. We have 2&4 year old girl and boy. Just wanted some ideas on little things we can do or say without having sex because we are great in that area when we have a chance to slip away from the kids. Maybe that's why we have been together since college because although our managing family and career we fine time to please each other in that area. I know it's more of the small things that would help us have continuous sparks, however we all know that every relationship has it's ups and downs.

Get one of those coupon books, you know, good for a free massage and things like that.

Thanks! I will look around that's sounds like a fun thing we can do together.

Go on a vacation just the two of you.

I wish we had the extra cash for that but that's first on our list when we do because we are well over due.Thanks!!

Go for a nice walk on the beach, take each other out for a nice dinner either at an expensive restaurant once in a blue moon or enjoiy something completely random at an unknown small parlour. The key to spontaneously spicing up your marriage is not to plan anything. The less planning the better it is because anything that you do will be more then you expected, the worst that could happen is you can stay home and not do anything.
Go for a walk and then get some delicious icecream or something :)
Gdluck

Thanks Everyone!!

Nothing beats getting someone to watch the kids and enjoying a quiet evening together