Hi guys,

I was dating a guy who was ready to commit and settle down as he is 35, he went very fast in the relationship and I went in the flow. After 5 weeks he got scared and pulled out. I was very sensitive at that time, I was very upset when he said he wanted a break. I have said things that I regret now, I have said that I won't wait for him forever and there are plenty of guys out there. It was my ego that made me say that and I didn't want him to take too long on his break. Pretty much I was pressuring him too.

I have text him only once one week after the break, he didn't reply. I was then missing him a lot and thought writing him an email saying that we can take a new shot by taking things slowly. But he has replied he doesn't believe that's what he wants. I got so upset that I replied him an email detailing that it was his fault that things went fast.

It's been 2 months now since we officially break up, I've grown up in those 2 months. I'm turning 27 soon, I feel I'm more ready from that break up and am ready for serious relationship now. I'm lacking confidence to call him. I know the best way to get him back is to call him. I have already text him saying if he wants to catch up, but no reply. I has told me before ex belongs to the past. No point to stay in touch with ex.

Please help me out.

He's over it, it's time for you to move on as well.

That ship has sailed, why are you still chasing it?

He told you he's not interested anymore, take the hint and stop trying to get him back. Get on with your life, finds someone else.

Good luck.