OK... so I am almost 18 and I have been in love with the same guy for almost four years. We have dated on and off for that long as well. I still love him and want him back but he tells me that he doesn't love me or want to be with me, but then asks me to spend the night with him and tells his mom that he loves me to death. I want to be with him so bad and the heartbreak is killing me. He won't even talk to me at all. How do I get, if nothing else, his friendship back (possibly a relationship)?

The relationship is dead, the best you can hope for is friendship but you're not ready for that yet.

Go to no contact, forget about him, move on and most importantly, stop going over to his house for a booty call, he'll never respect you if you keep doing that.

Right now he's using you, so why you'd want him back in any capacity I don't understand.

Good luck.