CrazyThumper
Jun 21, 2009, 11:34 AM
So I hung out with this girl a few times, and we ended up sleeping together after the 3rd night of hanging out. She was totally all for it- I was actually surprised.. but I was not going to say no. Anyway- the next time she came over (4 days later), if I even tried to kiss her neck she kind of turned away from me. Anytime I tried to do anything other then kiss her lips she kind of slapped my hand, or moved away. She said she was just in a mushy mood.. OK no biggie. Well jump ahead a few hours and after trying one more time she made the comment "Can't we just hang out, your making me regret what I did last week". Well... I was pretty taken back. I kind of gave her the "Are you serious" look. I asked if I was being too pushy and she said a little. But the previous week she said I was too shy/not aggressive enough. Talk about mixed signals...
To a guy- if you're going to sleep with me I kind of figured fooling around the next time I saw you wouldn't be that big of a deal. Now what I am thinking is.. she wants to make sure I am not just using her for sex/hookups. We go out to eat, movies, all kinds of stuff so I woulnd't think she would feel that way. I told her of course we can just hang out, I have no problem with that. But when she said something about regretting what we did it f'ing hurt, because I'm not the kind of guy to use girls... at all. Maybe she does not believe me.. I don't know. This was all last night- and I have not brought it up to her again today but we did talk on the phone real quick about nothing related.
I want to clear the air/make her unsterstand that I don't care if we don't have sex all the time etc. I like her, hanging out with her, etc.. How do I say this/convey this to her. Before she left last night she said she was 'dissapointed' in me, talk about a kick in the b!lls...
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To a guy- if you're going to sleep with me I kind of figured fooling around the next time I saw you wouldn't be that big of a deal. Now what I am thinking is.. she wants to make sure I am not just using her for sex/hookups. We go out to eat, movies, all kinds of stuff so I woulnd't think she would feel that way. I told her of course we can just hang out, I have no problem with that. But when she said something about regretting what we did it f'ing hurt, because I'm not the kind of guy to use girls... at all. Maybe she does not believe me.. I don't know. This was all last night- and I have not brought it up to her again today but we did talk on the phone real quick about nothing related.
I want to clear the air/make her unsterstand that I don't care if we don't have sex all the time etc. I like her, hanging out with her, etc.. How do I say this/convey this to her. Before she left last night she said she was 'dissapointed' in me, talk about a kick in the b!lls...
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