tltx1102
Jun 19, 2009, 04:55 PM
I'm 19 living in san francisco, recently my girlfriend's older sister, (I'll use the cap letter A to represent her), gave birth to a baby girl on the end of April this year. Subject A (the mother) is also 19, lived with the parents in a 4 bedroom, 2 story house, unemployed, part-time student. Since the beginning of subject A's relationship with subject B (the suppose father of the baby girl), he decides to move himself into my girlfriends house. Subject B (the boyfriend) works for fed-ex as a driver, 24-25 of age, mild gambler. They are not married, because 1 of them don't want to. The baby was unplanned and was not mention to the parents until the 7th month of pregnancy. My girlfriend's mother gave subject A large amount of her own blood savings for her baby before it was due. But subject A does not know how to save, for she spend more than 3/4th before the baby was even due. Due to that reason the money was tight for my girlfriends mother. After subject A gave birth, my girlfriend's mother is stuck at home most of the time taking care of Subject A and B's daughter. Even though she offered, I believe there should be a limit. My girlfriend's mother is going mental from basically being locked up in her house. Subject A goes to school for a few hours a day and uses it as an excuse, her boyfriend, subject B uses the excuse that he works and is too tire to care for the child. Subject B works part-time. The 2 of them are really taking advantage of my girlfriend's mother, money and the free babysitting. Subject B does not contributes much at all, he lives there, yet does not contribute for the bills, after work he just come back and play games on the laptop. So I want to know what can I do to relief my future mother-in-law of this duty to take care of her daughter's daughter? I though about calling child services but I am unless if I could deem these unfit parents.