yeahwhatever
Jun 17, 2009, 09:40 PM
Hello,
I've been dating my boyfriend now for a little over a year now and I'm about to move in with him in the next week and a half. He is 20 yrs old and I'm turning 18.
He has admitted to me that he has had a lot of girlfriends and one night stands and that he is definitely by no means a virgin.
I've had sex with one guy but he doesn't know about it because he asked me if I was a virgin in front of people that I didn't want to know that I wasn't, so I lied.
He moved to Florida for a little while because he had to and just made it back to my state this April.
OUr relationship is going great, he tells me I'm beautiful, opens the door for me, kisses me all the time, in fact we kiss more than any couple I know but it's only when I'm about to leave to go home. Im wanting to ask him to have sex rather make love but I'm too nervous to get rejected. Ive gotten on top of him and he never did anything, even when I kiss him while I was on top of him he would just smile and kiss me back and that was it. I kiss him on the neck a lot too but just like fast kisses, I'm just wanting to know why he hasn't tried anything... he's spent the night with me several times and never tries anything then either, he doesn't even make out with me unless I'm leaving to go home. Im too nervous to ask him why or do anything to try to get things started because I'm shy and I want him to try first and I'm scared he won't want to. Am I doing something wrong?
I've been dating my boyfriend now for a little over a year now and I'm about to move in with him in the next week and a half. He is 20 yrs old and I'm turning 18.
He has admitted to me that he has had a lot of girlfriends and one night stands and that he is definitely by no means a virgin.
I've had sex with one guy but he doesn't know about it because he asked me if I was a virgin in front of people that I didn't want to know that I wasn't, so I lied.
He moved to Florida for a little while because he had to and just made it back to my state this April.
OUr relationship is going great, he tells me I'm beautiful, opens the door for me, kisses me all the time, in fact we kiss more than any couple I know but it's only when I'm about to leave to go home. Im wanting to ask him to have sex rather make love but I'm too nervous to get rejected. Ive gotten on top of him and he never did anything, even when I kiss him while I was on top of him he would just smile and kiss me back and that was it. I kiss him on the neck a lot too but just like fast kisses, I'm just wanting to know why he hasn't tried anything... he's spent the night with me several times and never tries anything then either, he doesn't even make out with me unless I'm leaving to go home. Im too nervous to ask him why or do anything to try to get things started because I'm shy and I want him to try first and I'm scared he won't want to. Am I doing something wrong?