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Jun 17, 2009, 02:33 PM
I am 17 and confused, any advice at all would help me. I got my period on the last month of May. I had unprotected sex the first week of June. It is currently the third week of June and I am experiencing light bleeding, pressure on my lower stomach, tenderness in my breasts, I have been a lot more tired and less active, and have been feeling sick. I took a pregnancy test at home and it was negative. Maybe I took it too soon? Could I be pregnant? Please help.
I previously had a guy really hurt me. He acted nice to begin with. He was really nice and caring. Then he started pushing me to have sex with him. He told me that I was stupid, had nothing going for me, and couldn't do any better than him. He started calling me to just have sex. I always felt obligated to go because I started believing him. I really believed that I couldn't do any better than a star football and basketball player. One night, I was raped down the street from where he lived. I sent one quick message telling him that a man was coming after me and please help. Nothing. No response. The next day, I told him that I was raped. His exact response was " you should be used to it by now". I felt so alone. I tried ignoring his calls but I was never able to stop myself from leaving. I kept running to him whenever he called. He later got a girlfriend. I told her about what was happening and she didn't even seem to care. He yelled at me for telling her and so he started calling me on only Restricted. It has been three years... I feel like I am trapped. I cannot stop going when he calls. I want to hate him so bad... but part of me is still hoping that he will become that same nice guy I used to know. I am not normally this bad with guys. I almost appear to be unattached to anyone because of what he did to me. I want to let him go and be done with him but I can't get myself to let go. I change my number, he always finds a way to get it back... I tell him I'm not home, he drives by and looks for lights in my house and for my car. If anyone can give me any advice, I would greatly appreciate it... thanks
I went to a friends house. It was a guy friend and I was really starting to like him. Him and his friends were extremely drunk. I went into the house and they were all being really nice. My "friend" said that he wanted to show me something in his room. I followed him and so did the other 4 guys. This boy (what I thought was my friend) started to kiss me and hold my neck so that I couldn't move. The other boys started to pull off my clothes. They took turns holding me down and having their way with me. There was nothing I could do. Not one of them had a condom and they all finished inside me. After all of them got a turn, one even had two turns, the boy that I went to see walked me out. He said that he was sorry because he was super drunk and he didn't mean to hurt me. I left and was then immediately pulled over by the cops. Earlier in the day, I had a friend in my car that brought a six pack of beer. Luckily only one can was showing. They just told me to dump it out, go home and be careful. Last night was not a good night. I got maybe two hours of sleep. It all doesn't seem real right now but I know it was. I'm worried that since none of them had a condom, I could get pregnant. I was told about the day after pill but all of the family planning places are closed on the weekends and now I'm worried it will be too late. Someone please give me some advice...
I previously had a guy really hurt me. He acted nice to begin with. He was really nice and caring. Then he started pushing me to have sex with him. He told me that I was stupid, had nothing going for me, and couldn't do any better than him. He started calling me to just have sex. I always felt obligated to go because I started believing him. I really believed that I couldn't do any better than a star football and basketball player. One night, I was raped down the street from where he lived. I sent one quick message telling him that a man was coming after me and please help. Nothing. No response. The next day, I told him that I was raped. His exact response was " you should be used to it by now". I felt so alone. I tried ignoring his calls but I was never able to stop myself from leaving. I kept running to him whenever he called. He later got a girlfriend. I told her about what was happening and she didn't even seem to care. He yelled at me for telling her and so he started calling me on only Restricted. It has been three years... I feel like I am trapped. I cannot stop going when he calls. I want to hate him so bad... but part of me is still hoping that he will become that same nice guy I used to know. I am not normally this bad with guys. I almost appear to be unattached to anyone because of what he did to me. I want to let him go and be done with him but I can't get myself to let go. I change my number, he always finds a way to get it back... I tell him I'm not home, he drives by and looks for lights in my house and for my car. If anyone can give me any advice, I would greatly appreciate it... thanks
I went to a friends house. It was a guy friend and I was really starting to like him. Him and his friends were extremely drunk. I went into the house and they were all being really nice. My "friend" said that he wanted to show me something in his room. I followed him and so did the other 4 guys. This boy (what I thought was my friend) started to kiss me and hold my neck so that I couldn't move. The other boys started to pull off my clothes. They took turns holding me down and having their way with me. There was nothing I could do. Not one of them had a condom and they all finished inside me. After all of them got a turn, one even had two turns, the boy that I went to see walked me out. He said that he was sorry because he was super drunk and he didn't mean to hurt me. I left and was then immediately pulled over by the cops. Earlier in the day, I had a friend in my car that brought a six pack of beer. Luckily only one can was showing. They just told me to dump it out, go home and be careful. Last night was not a good night. I got maybe two hours of sleep. It all doesn't seem real right now but I know it was. I'm worried that since none of them had a condom, I could get pregnant. I was told about the day after pill but all of the family planning places are closed on the weekends and now I'm worried it will be too late. Someone please give me some advice...