So me and my girlfriend have been going out for a year but she cuts it because of her insecurities with my ex. The issue is they used to be friends and we used to go out now when she see's her she imagines her with me and how I treated her compared to my current girlfriend. Also, we been butting heads a lot lately and because of her past it tends to get worse. So, she breaks up with me with the cliché of saying it's her fault for starting fights when she's drunk and that she don't want to be with me.

So we're friends and we're hanging out damn there everyday. There are a couple occasions where we make out, hold hands like normal couples do. I ask her if she can take me back and whatever issue we have we can work it out. But she says she can't then I don't know and back to no again.

I'm just so confused because she made it clear she can't get back with me but yet we're like a couple but unofficial. What the dillio

Maybe she might be feeling gulity that she is going out with her former friend ex. She is jealous of the relationship you had with her but she can't change it.

What happen in your girlfriend past and how often does she get drunk? However, it really doesn't matter because the two of you aren't together.

Right now your caught in the web of confusion because your living off false hope. You think being around her is going change her mind and she is going want to get back with you.

She told you want she doesn't so listen to her. Stop doing the things the two of you when you were a couple because the relationship is over.

So you need to decide what your going do--face reality or stay confused?

You staying around just makes it easier for her with her decision and she doesn't have to feel the guilt.

Leave her alone and tell her if she doesn't want all of you then she gets none of you , she may just miss you then rather than having you around like a little puppy at her beckoned call.