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lolol
Jun 12, 2009, 10:43 AM
Hi, I am a guy who is in relationship with a girl but since I was young I was having a problem bcaz when I see male sex organs I feel sexually attracted and horny and now I am 22. I just thaught on my side that I may be a bisexual but I have never tried to have sex or love relationship with any guy and I don't desire only feelings.

My current girl and I always have sex and I past had it with three different girls. Now I want to marry my current girlfrend and she loves me very much, but that feelings won't go away. Im also scared to tell her about it.:confused:

Please help me bcaz I want to take the straight life and get kids. Anyone who can help me to remove or ignore my sexual feelings with guys will be highly appriciated.

Justwantfair
Jun 12, 2009, 10:48 AM
You are in a situation that all of us feel and deal with...

That is we are in a committed relationship, so being attracted to other people is off limits. We all deal with that in every committed relationship and it has nothing to do with your sexuality. If you are committed to your relationship then you will choose to be monogamous whether you are attracted to other women or other men.

If you do not feel that you can maintain a monogamous relationship because of your attractions to other people then you owe it to your girlfriend to be honest and let her find someone who will love and be faithful only to her.

Holly23
Jun 12, 2009, 10:56 AM
You don't have "a problem", there's nothing wrong with you.
You can't change the way you feel, and you can take the straight life but risk being very unhappy in the near future..
It's the 21st century for godssake your not going to get stoned for being gay or bisexual...