Hey, Im Fahtee (fah uh tea)
I'm 15 & 1/2 & will be a sophomore this upcoming school year.
I live with both parents & a two younger siblings.
My dad is.. well I don't know how to explain it, depressed?
He'll be nice & everything one second & the next he's all mad.
Sometimes he accuses me for doing things I never do or will do.
I'm doing poorly in school because I'm always so worried about what will happen when I go home.
Teachers & consulers don't do me any favors.
They always call him & tell him I have missing assignments or I'm not doing anything in class.
If only they knew the trurth.
My father is very cheep too.
If I want something, he'll say "i dont have any money" but I know he has a load.
Both of my parents NEVER let me out of the house.
They say they're protecting me by keeping me inside... but really they're pushing me away.
I'm not aloud to have a boyfriend, or go to the mall with my friends.
I'm growing up too fast & I'm missing out on a lot.
I want an emancipation, but there's one thing from stopping me.
My younger brother & sister.
Who knows what will happen to them if I leave.
I mean honestly, my parents treat them with more respect.
I cry pretty much every day.
The bags under my eyes explain it all.
I have one amazing uncle though.
He says he'll adopted me if I get emancipated.
And he'll help me start all over.
New town, new school, new me.
I always wish my uncle was my dad,
Or at least my dad would act a lot more like him.
Well that's pretty much it...
If anyone would give me adivce, thatd be awesome:)
Thanks.

--- Fahtee.

I dare you for two weeks to be the best kid and student you can possibly be. Could you do it? See if anything changes. (Polish up your spelling meanwhile.)

At your age, emancipation is not possible. You'd have to prove to a judge that you can completely support yourself.

Ask your uncle to make a deal with your parents to allow you to live with him for six months during which time you will turn into the perfect child and student.

I dare you for two weeks to be the best kid and student you can possibly be. Could you do it? See if anything changes. (Polish up your spelling meanwhile.)

At your age, emancipation is not possible. You'd have to prove to a judge that you can completely support yourself.

Ask your uncle to make a deal with your parents to allow you to live with him for six months during which time you will turn into the perfect child and student.




Thanks!
But I've always tried to impress both parents, but no matter how hard I try they'll never be impressed!
Sometimes, it just feels like I was a mistake to them.
No one would understand because my parents act COMPLETELY different around people..
& about the deal... I doubt that'll happen.
But thanks again, I appricate it :]

"im doing poorly in school because im always so worried about what will happen when i go home."
There's just something wrong with this picture.

What would happen?

He'd always argue and keep accusing me.
He makes me feel bad about myself.
I always want to run away but I can't leave my brother & sister.
I just can't.
January of '09.. I did somethingg to myself.. it was horriable.
I ended up in the hospital.
But I wanted to end up dead.

he'd always argue and keep accusing me.
Argue about what? Accuse you of what?

School & crap.
... accusing me, of everything.
He says I steal, and cheat.
That I lie to him... and that I'm trying to be something I'm not.

school & crap.
... accusing me, of everything.
he says i steal, and cheat.
that i lie to him... and that im trying to be something im not.
Just because you use the word "crap" here with adults you don't know and apparently have no respect for makes me wonder...

I apologize.
I given up on respect.
And on trust.
I don't know who to trust anymore.

i apologize.
i given up on respect.
and on trust.
i dont know who to trust anymore.
Actually, most adults are your friends who want to get past that wall you've built.

Your trying to help?
That's nice.(:

your trying to help?
thats nice.(:
Nice isn't the right word for it.

Well I'm sorry that I'm not a dictionary.

well im sorry that im not a dictionary.
See! You did it again!

Okayy.

okayy.
You need a few more "yyyyyyyyyyyyy"s to make that effective. Like okayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy.

Okayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy!

Lifes a rollercoaster.

okayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy!

lifes a rollercoaster.
Avoid, avoid, avoid.

How how how

how how how
Now you're asking the right question!

How can we break down the wall you've built up and find the sweet, helpful, wonderful, agreeable, and awesome girl we know is in there somewhere?

Get me away from these people.

get me away from these people.
I understand now.

... you do?

... you do?
Yup.

How so?