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firebabe4
Jun 8, 2009, 04:47 PM
Okay so you know how every one is suppose to have their first love well I did in 6th grade. I knew it from the start that I really liked him a lot!! :o so the first time we went out was sometime last year in I think the beginning of march. I really like him a lot at that time. I was crazy about this kid! We had our first kiss together and omg I was so nervous but like a month and a half later he did it. He broke my heart. He was just like " macy okay i don't think this is gonna work out so lets break up" over a text message!! I was so mad!! :mad: I couldn't cry cause I knew I shouldn't. That night I had a soccer game I was so sad my coach had to pull me out to talk to me!! But know me and him were texting and he was like macy I kind of like you do you like me? I said omg brady you know how bad you hurt me. He said you I know and I'm sorry. Then he said do you think we should go back out? I mean I still like him. So should I date him again?? :confused:



p.s you never do get over your first love.:)
I wish I could:(

Nestorian
Jun 8, 2009, 05:22 PM
"Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me."

You say you love him? Then have you learned to live with out him for a year or more? (since you are going with what others think, concerning the "first Love" ideal.) They say a person doesn't love some one until they can let go of that some one, personally I think that you have a lot of self discovery to go through. Whether you date him or not, you're going to find your heart broken until you learn to love yourself, forgive yourself, respect yourself, know yourself, ultimately BE yourself.
After all, how can you know your soul mate when you don't know yourself??

May peace and kindness be with you in what ever endevor you under take.

88sunflower
Jun 8, 2009, 05:30 PM
Oh yes, I remember my first love. That first kiss. I can still remember it like it was yesterday. Oh boy and I have had several boyfriends since then. I was young and so aren't you. You will get over it. Trust me. I have felt my world tumbling down so many times over guys and then bang, there is another cutie waiting in the darkness. My first kiss and I are so different today even if we wanted it to work we would have never made it. But we have that special memory and that "first" together. Chear up and just hang with your friends and move on.