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ROSE 2
Jun 6, 2009, 05:10 AM
Hi

I don't know more about sex because its my first time.

I had a sex with my Boy firend on the second day I finish my prieod.

Its happen from back said and some time he but it front but still am virgan

And today is due date and still I didn't have my prieod..

Can I have some explantion about the pregnancy . How its happen mostly? And what are the sine..

Thanks..

ROSE 2
Jun 6, 2009, 05:18 AM
Hi

How can I know that am virgian .

Help me to resolve this problem . My boy friend told me that when we have sex he smale bed smale from my bottem part..

How can I resolve this ?

Holly23
Jun 6, 2009, 05:19 AM
Its happen from back said and some time he but it front but still am virgan

Im sorry I don't understand this line, could you make it clearer so I can give you an appropriate answer please, and also if you don't mind me asking your age?

J_9
Jun 6, 2009, 05:20 AM
Having sex to become pregnant means that the man inserts his penis into your vagina. If this happened, you are no longer a virgin and it is possible to get pregnant this way.

Holly23
Jun 6, 2009, 05:22 AM
If his penis was inserted into your vagina you are no longer a virgin.

adam_89
Jun 6, 2009, 05:25 AM
hi

How can i know that am virgian .

help me to resolve this problem . my boy friend told me that when we have sex he smale bed smale from my bottem part ..
how can i resolve this ?

What is this supposed to mean?

Like the previous post said, If there was any Insertion of his genitals then you are no longer a virgin.

jmjoseph
Jun 6, 2009, 05:43 AM
You shouldn't be having sex until you learn more about it. And brushing up on the ENGLISH LANGUAGE wouldn't hurt, if you are expecting to learn anything here.

Holly23
Jun 6, 2009, 05:45 AM
[And brushing up on the ENGLISH LANGUAGE wouldn't hurt, if you are expecting to learn anything here.[/QUOTE]

Im sorry but she came here for help and information not to be critizied.

J_9
Jun 6, 2009, 05:47 AM
You shouldn't be having sex until you learn more about it. And brushing up on the ENGLISH LANGUAGE wouldn't hurt, if you are expecting to learn anything here.

This is a worldwide website. It represents ALL cultures. Maybe you need to be a little more sensitive to cultures other than your own. English may not be her first language.

Holly23
Jun 6, 2009, 05:48 AM
Its happen from back said and some time he but it front but still am virgan


Im not sure but I think she was saying they had anal sex and sometimes penis to vagina penintration

jmjoseph
Jun 6, 2009, 05:49 AM
I didn't mean that to sound hateful, did YOU understand what she said?

J_9
Jun 6, 2009, 05:51 AM
I didn't mean that to sound hateful, did YOU understand what she said?

Yup.

They sometimes have anal sex and other times have vaginal sex.

J_9
Jun 6, 2009, 06:11 AM
jmjoseph disagrees: My grandparents came from the middle east, you don't know my culture.

Thanks for the reddie. But my grandparents came from Russia and Poland. You don't know MY culture.

I can say, though, through a few years of experience here, that this person does not speak the Queen's English. How DARE you to tell her to brush up on her english! Who do you think you are?

jmjoseph
Jun 6, 2009, 06:17 AM
J9, Peace, I was just saying this was incoherent ( to me ) WOW, maybe I should brush up on MY english, I didn't mean it in a hateful way. I obviously worded it wrong. Sorry to all.

ScottGem
Jun 6, 2009, 06:19 AM
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jmjoseph (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/members/jmjoseph.html) disagrees: My grandparents came from the middle east, you don't know my culture.

First, may I call your attention to the guidelines for using the comments feature found here:

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/feedback/using-comments-feature-24951.html

Your use of the comments feature was inappropriate. However, while you could have been more sensitive in your post, your point is well taken. While this is a worldwide site, posts and answers are in english, therefore, if a poster wants help, they should try to compose their question in reasonably coherent english (this includes those who want to use chatspeak!)

While I interpreted the OP similarly to J_9, it was a guess and I'm not 100% sure that is what was meant. So it would be appreciated if the OP clarified what she said.

jmjoseph
Jun 6, 2009, 06:24 AM
Scottgem, Sorry for the mis-understanding , I'm still new. Just trying to set things straight, didn't mean to misuse the "comments". Again , sorry to all.

shazamataz
Jun 6, 2009, 07:39 AM
I think you mean anal sex?

Technically you may still be a virgin if his penis did not enter your vagina..
Be careful though, although anal sex cannot get you pregnant you can still contract std's.

bronzebabe
Jun 6, 2009, 08:58 AM
If his penis was in your vagina, you are NOT a virgin.
Please, since you don't even KNOW, get on the pill, and use a condom, or you will get pregnant or get a disease!

griffers90
Jun 7, 2009, 06:19 AM
Same as the others said if his penis went into your vagina you are no longer a virgin.
You do need to get on some contraception but know that the pill will stop pregnancy but only condoms stop STIs or STDs. You say that he said there was a bad smell? You may have a Urinery infection if your urine is cloudy or you are sore around your vaginal area you must see a doctor its only a case of anibiotics but it can get really bad if left untreated. Also whilst you're there talk about sex and contraception. REMEMBER anything said to your doctor is highly confidential.

Fr_Chuck
Jun 7, 2009, 06:31 AM
It is obvouis that you have no knowledge of sex and should not be doing anything with your boyfriend
( and esp trusting what he says)

Please research sex on the internet and find out all about birth control and more.

ScottGem
Jun 7, 2009, 06:47 AM
I merged youjr two threads. You were answered in your initial thread.

You technically lose your virginity when a penis is inserted into your vagina.

griffers90
Jun 7, 2009, 07:21 AM
hi

I don't know more about sex because its my first time.

I had a sex with my Boy firend on the second day i finish my prieod.

its happen from back said and some time he but it front but still am virgan

and today is due date and still i didn't have my prieod..

can i have some explantion about the pregnancy . how its happen mostly? and what are the sine ..

thanks..
Although it was your first time you really need to know how to keep yourself safe. There are many websites that you can use to find more sex education advice and also you can ask us. If you need advice on contraception just post it up on the board and we'll help. If you only had anal i.e. he only put his penis in you back end then you cannot be pregnant. If he put his penis in your vagina i.e. front end you are not a virgin and could possibly be pregnant. For you to be pregnant he needs to have put his penis in your vagina and his sperm need to have entered your vagina. If you are still a virgin (ie his penis has never enetered your vagina) then you cannot be pregnant. So just wait for your period to come. If he did enter your vagina go to the pharmacists and buy a pregnancy test find out for sure if your are or not. Signs of pregnancy vary in each individual but if you Google early pregnancy signs you'll find lots of helpful websites:
How do I know if I'm pregnant? (http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/health_advice/facts/pregnancysigns.htm)
For goodness sake please ask your doctor about sex because you really need to know what is what. I don't wish to sound cruel but you do not know enough to be having sex yet.

ScottGem
Jun 7, 2009, 12:21 PM
It being your first time is still no excuse for not knowing how to keep yourself safe.

You have to remember that this is an international site. Its obvious that the OP is not comfortable with english so may come from a culture where sex education is non-existent. Please keep that in mind when answering questions here.

griffers90
Jun 7, 2009, 02:06 PM
I am sorry if I upset anyone that wasn't my intention I had forgotten the site was international. I have changed my original statement to allow for this.

bronzebabe
Jun 7, 2009, 03:04 PM
I was unaware of the "pregnancy" issue, you will need to either go to the doctor or get yourself a home pregnancy test. I'm sorry to say, you Could be pregnant.

Sphira
Jun 7, 2009, 03:56 PM
Hi (hi)

I don't know more about sex because its my first time.

(then learn more about it there are books,vidios,sites and the people here)

I had a sex with my Boy firend on the second day I finish my prieod.

(does it really matter he could stilll knock you up, pregnant)

Its happen from back said and some time he but it front but still am virgan
Its happened form my rear and some time he is in my vagina but am I still a virgin?)

(no you are not if this is what happened because his male bit has entered you frount female bit)

And today is due date and still I didn't have my prieod..

(ok so its 3 days late if your young its going to be like10 days early or 5 days late or something when I was 14 I freked out cause I didn't have my period for 3 months but I hadn't had sex before)

Can I have some explantion about the pregnancy . How its happen mostly? And what are the sine..

(your probably not pregnant if this is how you did it and you used protection both condom and birth control)

Thanks..

(if I helped your welcome if I didn't I'm so sorry)