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menhim
Jun 4, 2009, 02:32 PM
Me and my boyfriend have a really good relationship and he wants me to meet his older sister which he really looks up to. I'm really not that good at meeting new people at all so I don't know how to act or what to talk about with her. Any solutions?

I wish
Jun 4, 2009, 03:02 PM
Talk to your boyfriend about it for ideas, it's his sister.

If you're going to have a serious relationship with your boyfriend, then she's going to have to get to know the real you. So the only thing you can really do is be yourself, polite and respectful.

tropiko
Jun 6, 2009, 02:11 PM
I know that , tips:

1 when you meet his sister, smile at her, say hi and shake hands
2 ask her simple questions for example, how are you, or something like that
3 if she asks you something you look at her and tell her the answer, just make it all cool
4 if oy are not sure how to talk don't talk too much only smile and answer questions that are you asked
5 if you want to tell her something, it should be in right moment when chat gets you to that theme, if its not that theme of chatting keep that for latter

mudweiser
Jun 6, 2009, 02:47 PM
Just be yourself. It's normal to be nervous when meeting a partner's close friend or family member.

Be yourself. If you don't wear make up, don't cake it on that day. If you don't wear dresses, don't wear a dress.

If you have nothing to hide, you've got nothing to worry about.

Sarah