Lost my daughter to agape in Alabama when I was 16 haven't seen her since she was 3 months old she is now grown at 21 I want to find her how do I go about that ,I think her name was changed.

Was there an adoption? If so, you would have to post all the info you have on one of the adoption boards and hope she is also looking for you.

I've asked an expert to come over and address this.

We need to know whether your daughter was adopted or in foster care.

You could check with Agape as a start, and at least leave YOUR information for her in case she is looking for you. You can also register on reunion sites, such as adoption.com, adoption.org, and ISSR.

Please realize that she may not realize that she is adopted, and may not KNOW to look for you. Even if she IS adopted, she may not want her life interrupted.

Your best bets are to register on reunion websites, and to contact any agencies used to see if they will pass on your information if she comes looking.

EDIT: Just looked at Agape Alabama online---did you CHOOSE adoption? Or were your parental rights severed? We DEFINITELY need more information from you in order to help you.