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NoLogicJustLove
Jun 3, 2009, 08:46 PM
High school is almost over for me, and I am very serious about this relationship I have with my boyfriend. He is from Iran , whitch means his family is VERY different from my hot dog eating, loud, non-artistic, small, divorced family.
He is persian. His parents want two things for thery're only child.
1) An extremely prestigious education
2)Too stay true to the middle eastern culture. (Music, language ect)

Our parents do not understand each other and his have had withdrawals on his relationship with me. They know we have a high chance of attending the same college and even having a future. It scares them. This boy has been my best friend for years and my boyfriend also. I am willing to do anything to have a warm and peaceful relationship with his family.
I really needs advise and tips on how to show these parents that I have the best of interest for their son and only want to love him and see that he has an incredible future.

Please , give me any advise you have to offer!! Any is greatly appreciated

I wish
Jun 3, 2009, 09:03 PM
You don't need to force anything. If your is as strong as you describe it, then just let your relationship develop. The longer you are together, the stronger the bond you will have. Eventually (after college) both your parents will realize this strengthened bond and will have to take it more seriously.

For now, you are only in high school, no parents is going to take a high school relationship seriously. Just enjoy the time that you spend together.