When I failed year 11 in 2006, I was giving the choice to stay back a year. I really and honestly wanted to complete year 12 because this was something I had wanted to do ever since I was really younge.

There was this chick who was a year below me and I really honestly liked her a lot. She new I had liked her a lot as well but I decided I did not want to make things awkward for her as that would have been HER year and not mine or anyone else's.


And ever since the last day I saw her face to face which would have been around October of 2006, I have been having this stupid dreams such as, Im at school with her and she just walks up and stares at me.

Or I go down to the canteen to bye 6 cans of coke, I don't no why I would bye 6 cans of coke but just as I bought them she had sat me down and said something really important to me.

I had another dream where I'm at a night club with my brother and she just walks up and hugs my brother. Winks at me and leaves.

Or my personal favourite she would be the only one on a bus and the bus just drives by me.

I no it sounds like I'm simpling rambling on about something that sounds very odd and bizarre but I haven't been able to shake of these dreams for up to 3 years now! And I had a dream about 3 nights ago when I was in a hospital and she was behind a door dying. I couldent open the door or anything I just had to stand there and watch.

I would just really love some advice of how to stop these dreams.

Maybe the dream is trying to tell you you haven't gotten over her and that maybe you should see if there is any way to go out with her and see if there is something there.

Obsession can cause dreams like these. You are probably subconciously obsessed with the fact that you didn't take the chance to get to know her then.

I haven't spoken to her in like 3 years, although she did acctualy add me to Facebook like a month ago.

I just don't want to have another dream where someone is dyeing and I wake up all sweaty. Its very irratateing.

Talk to her on Facebook. Tell her that you wish you had gotten to know her better when you were in school. Just talking with her might help stop the dreams.