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SHJ1011
May 25, 2009, 01:22 PM
The girl I like has a boyfriend but I think she likes me..

When I fist met her she took my phone and put my number in it.
When we talk we make a lot of eye contact.
She always says "Because I love You" and "Because you love me"
She goes trough my stuff.
She always calls me by a different name other than my real name.

Her boyfriend is 19 and has a kid to another girl.. her friends (some of them) thinks that he is a jerk, and after meeting him the other week, I agree, he is..

So do you think she likes me?

BMI
May 25, 2009, 01:28 PM
What do you mean she goes through your stuff?

Anyway, I think she's firting with you OR she's just being a really close friend. Her having a b/f is tricky business though.

dudevill
May 25, 2009, 01:37 PM
She might, but it is in your best interest not to invade in their relationship. Unless she and her boyfriend break up, you have no way of knowing if she cares about you over her boyfriend.
She might just be really flirty also.
But from my perspective it looks like you're stuck in the friend zone for now.

talaniman
May 25, 2009, 02:01 PM
Sure she likes you but has an agenda she isn't telling you about. Going through your stuff? That's a dope fiend move. You better watch yourself. Love is blind, but not stupid.

SHJ1011
May 25, 2009, 02:10 PM
Sure she likes you but has an agenda she isn't telling you about. Going thru your stuff?? Thats a dope fiend move. You better watch yourself. Love is blind, but not stupid.

I don't understand what you are trying to say?

I wish
May 25, 2009, 08:39 PM
She's just really flirty. If she has a boyfriend, she's off limits nor matter how much of a jerk the guy is. Just be her friend and keep your distance. You don't want to be the guy that she cheats with.

shazamataz
May 26, 2009, 05:46 AM
Anyone who already has a girlfriend/boyfriend is off the market.
Forget about them, they are not yours to date.

Anyone who is already in a relationship and is flirting with you doesn't deserve your time.
What makes you think that when you two start going out she isn't going to be flirting with other guys while she is with you?

I'm in a very harsh mood today, sorry but I just wouldn't be able to trust anyone who did that.

talaniman
May 26, 2009, 06:06 AM
Originally Posted by talaniman https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/amhd_imgs/buttons/viewpost.gif (https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/girl-like-has-boyfriend-357748.html#post1756245)
Sure she likes you but has an agenda she isn't telling you about.

Just like she uses her Boyfriend, she will use you for what she wants. Stop and think of what could possibly keep a couple together if she is complaining to you about him, but doesn't leave to pursue her own happiness. You will fill a need, and when it gets complicated, or to much effort for her, you get dumped for the next sap!

Going thru your stuff?? Thats a dope fiend move.
If she does that when your around, then imagine what she does when your not around.

You better watch yourself. Love is blind, but not stupid.
You have enough evidence to run, and hide from this female, as you can't believe because she is the apple of your eye, she is feeling you the same way.



I don't understand what you are trying to say?

Your being used,and its as plain and simple as that.