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leslee571
May 16, 2009, 07:01 AM
I fall in love a man's picture, I want to find him, who can help me?

Gem_22205
May 16, 2009, 10:17 AM
The only one who can help you would be the individual in the photograph.

leslee571
May 16, 2009, 10:24 PM
i fall in love a man's picture, i want to find him, who can help me?
Here is my story:
I meet a man on match,com. He talked with me for three months. His name is ted. Almost from beginning I knew this is scammer. But unfortunately I fall in love the man on pics as alla48. So I drop myself in this trap. I went to nigeria and meet the scammer, obi, a black guy.
Obi tell me ted is his americam friend, veterinary doctor, get dvm in university collage at Dublin. Live in NC, USA. Obi use it as his voice massage station now. It still works now.
Also I notice the exact date of ted's pics taken by canon power shot A300 and A400.
So I am here , just try some one help me to find him.

leslee571
May 16, 2009, 10:27 PM
The only one who can help you would be the individual in the photograph.

Thank you.

leslee571
May 16, 2009, 10:29 PM
Thank you, Gem. But if I can find this man. Why do I come here for help?

leslee571
May 16, 2009, 10:38 PM
I regester on myspace.com today. And I put my pics and this man's pic's on it

mum45
May 16, 2009, 10:39 PM
Does the old saying "desperate times call for desperate measures"? That's why you came here, you are desperate!!

You fell in love with a picture, not a real person. I don't mean to be rude, but you spent a lot of time and money chasing after a dream, after you found out this person was not who you thought. Spend some more time and money seeing a therapist to find out why you are still chasing after something you know is not the "real deal". There is an actual condition that requires therapy about not being able to let go of relationships, but what the real problem is, you never actually had a relationship, sweetie!

leslee571
May 16, 2009, 10:49 PM
Yes, its sound crazy, yes, I have no relationship now. But before I begin new life, I really do wish the matter occur. No matter whatever kind of result . I will accept it. Then I can die my heart for this man.

trmpldonagn
May 16, 2009, 10:58 PM
Hi Leslee. Did you try a reverse search with the phone number? Have you tried to get a listing for his name in NC? I am a little confused. You met a person who was not the picture. Is that right? And you want to actually meet the real man in the picture?
Sometimes when you do meet the person, you can find that the attraction is no longer there. It's pretty tough to know just from a picture and written words through emails.
Have you asked Obi where you can find him? I feel bad for you that you were scammed. I would feel bad if you did somehow find him only to have him hurt you. I'm not 100% sure if I have the story correct still.

leslee571
May 17, 2009, 04:10 AM
Hi Leslee. Did you try a reverse search with the phone number? Have you tried to get a listing for his name in NC? I am a little confused. You met a person who was not the picture. Is that right? And you want to actually meet the real man in the picture?
Sometimes when you do meet the person, you can find that the attraction is no longer there. It's pretty tough to know just from a picture and written words through emails.
Have you asked Obi where you can find him? I feel bad for you that you were scammed. I would feel bad if you did somehow find him only to have him hurt you. I'm not 100% sure if I have the story correct still.
Thank your replay, trmpldonagn. Yes I agree with you, maybe I will lose the attraction when I really meet one I dream. But now , I wish , just wish to find him. That is only my thinking now ,it make me surffer too much. I wish to make sense now. Yes. I researched his phone number. I got two results from internet. One is only have generale number direction : julian ,NC. Another one is Robert scott and exact address. I already sent the letter to him one week ago. No any reply till now.
But I don't know how to put his name on the listing in NC? Can you teach me how to do that?
I met obi, because I am not sure who really talk with me on internet before I went to nigeria. That is why I went to nigeria and just want to make sure who is .
Yes. I asked obi where can I find ted. He say he don't know yether where ted is.. now he is crazy to chase at me. Also even don't like to tell me any about ted.
If he can tell me where can I find ted. I guess I don't need to come here ,and try to get some help.
I put myself in a mad.

Please tell me how to put ted's name on the listing in NC?

Leslee

trmpldonagn
May 17, 2009, 11:15 PM
But I don't know how to put his name on the listing in NC? Can you teach me how to do that?

Please tell me how to put ted's name on the listing in NC?

Hi again Leslee. I don't know why but I thought there was a last name that you may have been given whether it was correct or not.

Who was it that you sent the letter to?
Forgive me but I am not sure what you mean by teaching you to put his name on the listing. In NC.

In the meantime, check your private messages Leslee. I am going to send you something that may be of help to you in the meantime.

Leslee, this is an edit... I just tried to send you a private message but it does not allow me to. Can you set yourself up on this site so that you can receive messages?

In the meantime, you can always try www.google.com and then type in -- Reverse telephone number search
I know you said you tried this but I'm not sure if you tried all of the options.

And not for anything, it sounds mean what this person, or both of these people did to you, unless I am misunderstanding that part. Also, sometimes on match, the person hides their profile for a while. You can keep checking a search for Alla48 but I think that might not only be frustrating but I don't want the same nonsense to happen to you. My wishes would be that you would meet someone else but I know that's easier said than done.

See if you can allow yourself to receive private messages. If you need help how to do that, let me know. I will check back tomorrow, about 24 hours. Hope I can help somehow. Take care for now.

leslee571
May 18, 2009, 02:29 AM
but i don't know how to put his name on the listing in NC? can you teach me how to do that?

please tell me how to put ted's name on the listing in NC? .

Hi again Leslee. I don't know why but I thought there was a last name that you may have been given whether it was correct or not.

Who was it that you sent the letter to?
Forgive me but I am not sure what you mean by teaching you to put his name on the listing. in NC.

In the meantime, check your private messages Leslee. I am going to send you something that may be of help to you in the meantime.

Leslee, this is an edit...... I just tried to send you a private message but it does not allow me to. Can you set yourself up on this site so that you can receive messages?

In the meantime, you can always try Google (http://www.google.com) and then type in -- Reverse telephone number search
I know you said you tried this but I'm not sure if you tried all of the options.

And not for anything, it sounds mean what this person, or both of these people did to you, unless I am misunderstanding that part. Also, sometimes on match, the person hides their profile for a while. You can keep checking a search for Alla48 but I think that might not only be frustrating but I don't want the same nonsense to happen to you. My wishes would be that you would meet someone else but I know that's easier said than done.

See if you can allow yourself to receive private messages. If you need help how to do that, let me know. I will check back tomorrow, about 24 hours. Hope I can help somehow. Take care for now.

Thank you again, trmpldonagn.
I search it on two usa company and give me two different result. I sent the letter to one of it , his owner is robert scott. No reply. But I haven't try that too much option. Maybe I try some or Google first.

I hope I can get your help soon.

King regards,

Leslee

trmpldonagn
May 19, 2009, 01:06 AM
Hi Leslee. OK, it must have worked. I sent you an email to that address. It's been 15 minutes and I have not yet received an error message.
I would just rather try to talk to you this way because of the communication glitch (It's me, not you) and going back and forth too much. I only signed on to respond to you for now because I only have a few minutes before I sign off. I didn't want you to feel ignored and I can sense how deeply frustrated you are. I'm going to re-read everything you wrote and then write you. I don't know if a PI can help or not but I hope so. Leslee, I know you said that even if the turnout is negative IF you are able to somehow contact him, try to prepare yourself the best you can, OK? Just in case.

Edit... Ok, ready Leslee. Now it was easier once I cleared my head. It's a very long email with a lot of instructions so please be patient and please read over a few times. Maybe if I can somehow shorten it (and it works), I can post it here. Some people may have hired a PI by now because of the work involved but I know a lot of people do not have money. Also you don't want to scare the man if you are able to find him. A PI would have some questions for you and check other things out. Also, I don't know if you thought to check out that section/PI here. I don't know. Maybe you'd get the same results. Either way, try everything I wrote to you. It's a lot but you want to try I think.
Again, prepare yourself in case this person does not even exist or even if he does... you get the idea.

trmpldonagn
May 20, 2009, 10:33 PM
Hello Leslee. The last email I sent to you came back with an error and said it was spam. Hmmmmm. It could have been because I forwarded your original email back to you with a reply. In it you had several email addresses and I really don't know if one of those addresses caused the spam or not. I also was not able to log onto my computer for a while.