das13
May 14, 2009, 07:00 AM
Bumped into my ex last weekend. Haven't seen or communicated with her for over two months. At that time, we had a friendly conversation and she introduced me to her new bo. So this weekend I see her and we smile, say hello and move on. An hour later, she texts me writing: "You look great! It's obvious you've been working out. Your hard work shows fabulous results."
This sounded a little over the top and I wasn't sure how to respond. She took about two months to dump me for this other guy and it was rough. I didn't want it to end and got desperate/pathetic for a while around Christmas. Anyway, in January when she finally ended it and told me she wanted to be just friends (no benefits), I told her I needed some time and wouldn't be calling anymore. I haven't. It was very difficult not to for a while, but I've gotten on with my life and was doing quite well until I got the text.
I'm pretty sure I don't want to settle down with her, but I would love to see her once in a while again.
Anyone have thoughts on what that text meant?
I responded about a day later with: "Thanks for the text."
This sounded a little over the top and I wasn't sure how to respond. She took about two months to dump me for this other guy and it was rough. I didn't want it to end and got desperate/pathetic for a while around Christmas. Anyway, in January when she finally ended it and told me she wanted to be just friends (no benefits), I told her I needed some time and wouldn't be calling anymore. I haven't. It was very difficult not to for a while, but I've gotten on with my life and was doing quite well until I got the text.
I'm pretty sure I don't want to settle down with her, but I would love to see her once in a while again.
Anyone have thoughts on what that text meant?
I responded about a day later with: "Thanks for the text."