View Full Version : Teen Dating girl dating younger boy?
zoe360
May 13, 2009, 12:52 AM
I'm a 15 year old girl turning 16 in September and I'm in year 10.
This boy who I think is reallly cute asked me out the only problem is
I found out that he is turning 14 and in year 7! Would it be wrong if I
Went out with him considering there is a 2 yr age difference?? :confused:
Sahi444
May 13, 2009, 01:22 AM
I don't know but when you consider society and what others think, it does not look like a very good prospective
shazamataz
May 13, 2009, 01:43 AM
You are 16 he is 13 (you said he is 'turning' 14)
That's a 3 year age gap... not much when you are in your 20's but the younger you are the bigger the gap seems.
The choice is yours but you defiantely wouldn't be able to do anything remotely sexual with this boy, you are getting towards an age where engaging in sexual activities is OK ( kissing etc) but he is far too young to be doing this. Also, think of how his parents would feel, I'm sure they wouldn't be too impressed.
Gemini54
May 13, 2009, 04:22 AM
I think you'll find that teenage boys are a lot more immature than girls of the same age. Although you may think he's cute, I think the age difference will be too much.
I'd give it a miss and focus on boys your own age.
danielnoahsmommy
May 13, 2009, 04:25 AM
Besides age... the educational difference is too great.
talaniman
May 13, 2009, 09:19 AM
He may be cute, but how does he act?
Justwantfair
May 13, 2009, 09:25 AM
Around my area, that doesn't even put you in the same school...
The age and maturity differences are too great to be dating someone 3 years younger then you are. Really won't do much for your 'image' either as a girl, dating a boy so much younger.
Stick to your class - Year 10. There are enough obsticles to dating in high school don't add this one to your list.
sGt HarDKorE
May 13, 2009, 09:26 AM
Most likely, once you get to know him and such you will find out he is an immature boy, however, that isn't always the case. I don't think it is a big deal as long as you don't do anything sexual. I have friends and know people who have had a boyfriend/girlfriend of 2 years older in age, and they have been together for a long time.
You shouldn't be dating a guy for simply being cute, you should think more about what you guys have in common and such
logictothereasque
Apr 15, 2010, 06:47 PM
Those rules only apply to a adult dating below the age of consent and besides the point you two are well within the age bracket to do what ever you want so go for it