I read these posts and in my own experience also and I always wonder is it true "once a cheater always a cheater"

Can a person really change or are the stripes there to stay.

The question has been asked a thousand times on here. There is no answer. It is up to the person doing the cheating whether they want to change. It is up to the person being cheated on whether they want to give the cheater that chance.

Only the person who cheats can decide that. You could keep cheating or you could stop. I dated 3 girls at once when I was 18, it didn't last long, I didn't get caught just realized that they deserved better and since then I haven't cheated and have been in long time committed relationships since then.

I know its been asked over and over but that's what struck me today. Reading some of the posts and seeing it out there.

Questions that are frequent in this board

- I lost my love, how can I win him back
- My spouse asked for space, what can I do
- My spouse cheated on me, will he do it again
- Is once a cheater, always a cheater?

From experience yes, they can change.
But some people can never resist the temptation to cheat.