I'm 29 yes of age and had a roller coaster of a relationship with my own mother ,my sister deid last year which as made our relationship even harder.. im a single mother of two the father says he does not want to know my children... my mother always blames me for everything snobd me in the street ,always telling me what a mistake I am.. Now she says she can't believe she didn't have an abortion with me I can't believe she said that.. If it was not for the love of my children I would end my life now... If your own mother say's that to me there must be something wrong with me .

I hate to add more fuel to this fire, but its not a good idea to piggyback your question on someone else's. This can lead to confusion. You should start a new thread. So I've moved your question to its own thread.

I think you need to talk to a counselor about your (understanably) low self esteem issues. A good counselor can help you see that you have worth, your children love you so you did something right there.

Frankly, for your mother to say those things show there is something wrong with her, not necessarily with you.