Ok so this girl moved to my town in the beginning of this school year. I am in 8th grade. We started not really being friends because there was an incident where I accidentally got tomatoe on her shirt during lunch. Her name is Jane. After a month or two, we befriended each other. Everything was fine for a straight 4 months. We would hang out all the time. One time, we got into a fight because I got soda on her once and she didn't tell me she was mad at me for almost 2 weeks! When word finally got to me, I wanted to make her feel the same way that I had so I typed a status on Facebook saying "I hate people with the name Jane!" I felt like she was talking behind my back, just like my ex. BIG MISTAKE comparing my slutty ex with my friend. She really got mad at me. Soon we talked it out and everything was fine. Then, two weeks ago, I found out that she was insulting me basically right in front of my ex via Facebook comments. This, again, upset me so I posted the same status as I did weeks before. We found both found out that it was a miscommunication on both parts but during that argument, I learned how she really felt about me. She said that, even when I thought we were friends, she would go home after hangin' with me and question why she even talks to me... on top of this, she calls me a tool, which apparently has many definitions. The tool remark had been going on since the beginning of our friendship but it did upset me. Then she was saying that she is quiting trying to work on our friendship so after a few days, things worked out. And finally, yesturday, she posted a picture of me online with a photoshopped in my mouth. She barely apologized and when I talked to her about forgiving her, she basically kept insulting me. Now, no matter what, this girl whome I thought I was friends with, is insulting me. Note: I'm not saying that I have never insulted her before but this was on a rare basis. PLEASE HELP ME! I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO!

Further Info: I am a male and I do not have "more than a friend" feelings for this girl.

Perhaps it's best you two leave on another alone. It seems that you two are too agrivated by one another. That will be hard for you, but the two of you are just not very nice to each other.

One does one thing, and the other does something worse. That's just not cool, it's not healthy, it's not mature, it's not nice, it's not funny, it's not smart, it's not anything to do with what you might consider good, so why do it?
Because she hurt your feelings? Understandable but it seems like it's time to step up, and be the bigger person and let go of her rude comments, gestures, etc.

You sound like a smart guy, good guy, mature guy, kind, caring, and nice. So why let her change you into something you're not?

Peace and kindness be with you brother.

Yeah this friendship is pretty bad...

It sure doesn't take long before friends are enemies. Thinking back to 8th grade the only thing harder than being friends with a girl was being one with a guy... it's a silly age and we girls aren't always as mature as we should be, that goes for you guys too... lol.

Cut the slander, delete her from your friend list and move on. Sorry.

You will sadly encounter lots of bad friends, realizing it early will save you later on. Just act normal around her, you don't have to be her friend to do this. She will realize she is looking a fool when she is playing these childish games ALL ALONE!

One of the worst things to dating is kids posting on face book and the such, And texting to be honest, it stops people from taking and being honest on how they feel. So often they have to try and put on a act in front of others.

It sounds like time for this relationship to move on and new ones start, who knows often young relationships happen again one never knows