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Hobbes_the_Cat
Apr 25, 2009, 10:19 PM
This guy keeps asking me out and I keep saying no, I am not ready for a relationship,
I ask him to stop and am telling him its inapropriet, but he won't stop! Please help me.
( I am not saying my age on site by the way srry )
Gemini54
Apr 25, 2009, 10:39 PM
Just keep saying no.
If he is older than you, and you're still under your parents care - you need to let them, or someone older you can trust, know.
Don't let someone like this scare or intimidate you - if you feel it's inappropriate then let someone else know what's going on.
mudweiser
Apr 25, 2009, 11:00 PM
If he's harassing you in a way that makes you uncomfortable, if you are in school tell your guidance councilor or your principal or vice principal.
If he is just being annoying, say yes, set a date and stand him up. I'm sure that'll get through him.
Either way tell your dad about him or big brother and I'm sure they'll set the kid straight.
Sarah
chuff
Apr 25, 2009, 11:45 PM
Tell him if he ask's you again you will file a restraining order.
Hobbes_the_Cat
Apr 26, 2009, 06:13 PM
He is but only by a year, ( but failed grade one lol) So is in my class,
Alty
Apr 26, 2009, 06:14 PM
Tell your parents, threaten him with a restraining order if he refuses to take hell no for an answer.
You don't have to put up with this. You said no and no means NO!
pathisfer
Apr 26, 2009, 06:24 PM
Many guys think that persistence pays off, it's what Hollywood teaches them, and unfortunately most of the guys that do this in real life are troubled.
Tell him that "No" is a complete sentence and it's not negotiable. Any response after that to him is just giving him a reaction he wants and he'll persist. Telling him that you're not ready for a relationship is giving him an explanation that he will try and work around so stop responding to him completely.
If you've already done that or he doesn't respect that, then you need an adult/authorities to intervene.
Hobbes_the_Cat
Apr 29, 2009, 07:27 PM
Well, I had to move away from him in class, and he still talks to me so he gets in trouble now, and yah, so He hasn't bothered me after I posted this.
chuff
Apr 29, 2009, 07:32 PM
Well, I had to move away from him in class, and he still talks to me so he gets in trouble now, and yah, so He hasnt bothered me after I posted this.
If he does start talking to you again, tell him, "It's so funny you keep getting in trouble for a girl wouldn't do the same for you."
Romefalls19
Apr 30, 2009, 05:14 AM
Continue what you are doing, alert your principal and parents
Hobbes_the_Cat
May 1, 2009, 05:21 PM
Lol
Hobbes_the_Cat
May 2, 2009, 11:08 AM
Thanks