CrystalC
Sep 19, 2006, 01:08 PM
I was raped and had a baby in Texas. I didn't report it to the police and since I knew who the man was I told him when I was 8 months pregnant that The baby was his. HE denied it and I had not further contact with him. The Birth certificate has only my name and no father listed.
I had to get assistance (Welfare, food stamps, medicaid) because I lost my job (no maternity leave).
The Social worker assigned to me in Texas said that My refusal to say who the man is and therefore denying him visiting rights and refusing child support is not acting in the best intrests of my child and they would consider removing her from my custody.
I simply removed myself from the Texas welfare system and moved to a new state, no one here has ever been threatening about it. I want to go back home to Texas but I'm afraid if I need medicaid for my child or food stamps while I look for a new job that they will have CPS take my Daughter from me.
Was the social worker just blowing Hot air or can they really do this only for keeping my kid away from my rapist?
I had to get assistance (Welfare, food stamps, medicaid) because I lost my job (no maternity leave).
The Social worker assigned to me in Texas said that My refusal to say who the man is and therefore denying him visiting rights and refusing child support is not acting in the best intrests of my child and they would consider removing her from my custody.
I simply removed myself from the Texas welfare system and moved to a new state, no one here has ever been threatening about it. I want to go back home to Texas but I'm afraid if I need medicaid for my child or food stamps while I look for a new job that they will have CPS take my Daughter from me.
Was the social worker just blowing Hot air or can they really do this only for keeping my kid away from my rapist?