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TwistedFate901
Apr 19, 2009, 12:26 AM
Ok, so there's this girl named Michelle, we've known each other for 6 years, I think I've had a crush on her for like the past 3 years. (long time I know, we're both juniors), she's got a boyfriend of 1 year and a few months, but like she invites me over to her house to study and do homework even though she could do it w/o me (her boyfriend knows, & he's not jealous), we've never done anything, (she doesn't cheat on her boyfriend ) and like I'll walk her to some of her classes and I'll put my arm around her, or shell hug me while were walking to class and I want to think that she likes me too, like the body language is there and I've never verbally told her how I feel and that I like her,(mainly because it would screw up w/e good thing I have going right now, and now is not the time to tell her that) but I like know for a fact that she knows how I feel, sh'e not dumb she knows I'm interested. Also, she keeps telling me to go to go to college with her, (its where I was planning to go originally anyways). So tell me what you think, I'm just kind of confused a little bit, sometimes I only feel that she uses me for homework, and if I was any sort of threat to her relationship with her boyfriend that he would be angry with me.

Also here's a scenario that's recently happened. We were (me and michelle) in spanish class and a girl next to us was like, "my bf thought you two were going out, because he saw you guys walking together close in the hallway, because yall kinda look like it just w/o kissing or holding hands" and I'm silent because I don't want to say anything stupid and Michelle says "ya, there's alot of ppl that think we're going out, but i just don't care at this point"

talaniman
Apr 19, 2009, 05:53 AM
Stop being available for the homework help, and I'll bet she isn't so charming. Trust me, she already knows that your nose is open, and she can lead you anywhere.

Ever wonder what she tells her boyfriend?? Why he doesn't care?? Don't be played by a female who wants something from you, and knows how to get it.