Me and my girlfriend broke up a while ago and we went our separate ways.We broke up not really hating each other just kind of happened. Well we talk a lot pretty much every day,now I was wondering how do I got about asking her for a second chance.I want to ask her to try dating again but I don't want to ask in a way where I sound desperate or something like that.

So what can I say so give me the best chance or getting her back?

What's the right words?


Thanks for the help

Just say what's in your heart. It doesn't matter what words you use, if she's going to give you a second chance, she will.

But don't expect her to give you that second chance. There's a reason that you guys broke up in the first place.

Who's idea is breaking up?

When breaking up, shouldn't you be in no contact? Why you're talking?

You can pour your heart out but still her decision to get you back depends on how happy she was with you, the reason for the break up and if it's for the better of having you back... remember, we're not talking about if one still loves another or the feeling is mutual.

You can say whatever you think is fit to say but in the end you can't win someone back that doesn't want to be won back.

Ask her out for coffee, casually bring up the topic about giving it another shot. The worst that happens is she tells you she doesn't feel that way.

Ummm. I think we need more information about the situation to give a better answer. What do you mean going separate ways? Was it a break up? How long have you guys been apart? Have feelings have changed? Is she seeing someone else?

How old are you??