I met this guy one day at lunch and he wouldn't stop staring at me. At first I was kind of freaked out and wanted him to stop, but then, two nights later it was halloween and my friend had invited him and his brothers over to celebrate. I was really drunk, but I do remember him trying to talk to me. His brothers and friends kept telling me he was trying to get with me and that he liked me, but he simply wasn't my type. He was oddly tall, kind of chunky, and somewhat freaked me out. I ended up with his number any way and woke up with a text from him (my best friend gave it to him). I ended up really liking him and since that morning we haven't stopped talking. I ended up dating and falling in love with him (ironic, I know), but I can't understand why. In the very beginning of our relationship he went to a party and hooked up with some girl. The next time I saw him he had hickeys WRAPPED around his neck. I let that one slide cause we weren't really dating at the time, but that's not where problems ended... he also started to disrespect me verbally, fight with me, and hooked up with my "friend". He's made me cry, and has said things to me that I will never forget. I seem to always give him another chance. He is medically bipolar, has adhd, and temper problems, so I never blame him when we fight, but I'm really getting tired of it, which breaks my heart because I love him so much! Now we're broken up and he's dating someone else, that I know will never love him or understand him, but we still hook up and talk like were dating. I don't feel bad though because she would interfere with our relationship, and I know she doesn't love him. He only asked her out cause we got into a huge fight and he knew that'd piss me off but now he doesn't know how to dump her cause he supposedly doesn't want to hurt her and thinks it'd be messed up to leave her for me, which I get, but HELLO if he really loves me he'd do it any way, right?

WHAT DO I DO??

I LOVE HIM!! :confused::confused::confused:

You love someone that cheats on you, hit you, and basically treats you like a dog. Please run to the nearest exit and leave this guy alone asap. This isn't love and you should never allow someone to treat you this way. Don't you think you deserve more? I do.

This guy is your ex so leave it that way. He has temper issues, biopolar, and adhd. Stop talking to him and build up your self-esteem.

Okay here goes nothing . I'm the "friend" that caused all of this, so I apologize. You're the kind of person that gives advice but can't get it/go through with it. You're dumb for knowing him, having his number, and loving him. He's not going to change. Look at his dad and his brothers. They're not good people, especially with women. MOVE THE ON.