I'm 16... im in love with a MUCH older man... he has a girlfriend... but he loves me too... he can't stand the idea of either one of his "girls" hating him... am I sopposed to keep loving him or move on with my life?

This man is taking advantage of you.

You haven't given much information but I think you should be talking to police officers.

How old is he, and why are you holding on to someone who has some one else? Both of you are being played. Don't accept that kind of treatment. That's not love your feeling, but an unhealthy dependence that he exploits.

Move on!
He is not available! He has a girlfriend.
If he is much older,he is no doubt taking advantage of your youth and no good can come of it.

Move on with your life.. this does not sound right... he can't stand either one of his girls hating him!! He needs reporting,it's not natural.

Sounds unhealthy to me... look towards someone your own age.

I'm sure you feel very special, having an older guy like you. But the fact that he is with someone and yet demands the attention of you on the side is just wrong.

Don't let your feelings of being special keep you from enjoying the rest of your life. Don't put your life on hold for him... because honestly? You're special because you're YOU, not because some guy likes you.

Don't waste your teenage years on someone who is not available.