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bsearcy6239
Apr 4, 2009, 01:28 PM
I have been dating my Boyfrind for over 3 years and living with him for about 2 years. I love him with all my heart and I am ready to get married but he isn't. How can I get him to Propose to me without him feeling pressured into it?:confused:

artlady
Apr 4, 2009, 01:53 PM
You can't.
You already stated that he isn't ready.

Why would you want to force him into making a decision that is so life altering when he is not ready?

That would be a very poor way to begin a marriage.

If marriage is so important to you you need to express your feelings to him.Have an open honest discussion about why you want to get married and why he does not.

Communication is the key.

twinkiedooter
Apr 5, 2009, 04:17 PM
I've noticed that once a couple starts living together the guy usually seems to keep dragging his feet about getting married. Maybe you should go back to the other arrangement of living apart and see how long he puts up with that arrangement.

nikosmom
Apr 5, 2009, 04:19 PM
Had to spread the rep Artsy but you made some great points!

Had you two ever discussed the plans for the relationship before you began living together?

twinkiedooter
Apr 5, 2009, 05:37 PM
Once a guy is living with you what is the allure to getting married? Answer: There isn't any.

Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free isn't just an old saying for nothing.