Right were do I start.. . I have been with my girlfrind over a year now and you recently found out that after she had been to my house she was keep on gng to meet these two guys and not telling me and whe I found out I asked her and she said it was just mates even though she was callng them gawjus and babe etc.

Also I found out this week that she had been to meet her ex-boyfriend who she was with for 3 years and sad that it was a lie until she confessed this week.

Then just to kick me when I was down I found out off one of her friends that she had been cheating on me but I don't know what to do or to believe if it is just friendship she wants with these guys.

I may just be getting taken for a fool bt I love her lots.

The answer is clear, a lot more clear than your post (sorry, shameful, I know).

GET RID OF HER!! The problem with dogs is that they keep coming back after you hit them... well, quit coming back! Time to find a new home my friend.

I think you already know the answer to this question you have to leave her if she is txting other guys and meetingup with her ex she is defo cheating on you... sorry for being so straight forward I know it hurts...

She's been keeping a lot of secrets from you. I'm not sure how you can still trust her.

As for believing your friends or not, it shouldn't matter. If you trust your girlfriend, it won't matter what those friends are saying. The fact that you might think there is some truth in what they are saying means that you don't trust your girlfriend.

Time to move on.

If a friend came to you and told you this story ,tell me what advice would you give that friend?

Certainly you can stay with her and wait until you actually find her in the act of cheating or you can follow your gut and end it now before you get hurt any further.

It seems like it is only a matter of time before she takes the next step.

If it was as innocent as she says, why lie about it?? I would be long gone.

I would have taken off running as soon as then first lie was discovered, but you stuck around thinking it was true love. I get that, I admire that. But at some point you have to realize you have a set of b@lls between your legs and get up off your knees, and run away from this lying tramp.

And to think it's only Tuesday and I'm this fired up:-)

Don't let your feelings for her interfere with your common sense.

With that being said, is she making a fool out of you? Yes, and you accept it by staying. It is okay to be in love with someone but it is sad when you're a fool in love.