candle_light
Mar 30, 2009, 03:53 AM
Clubbing with my friend... haha I have some questions
So this one guy last week was dancing with me and like holding my hand when we walked from club to club.. and saying like if any weird or sleazy guys come up to you then I got your back... and then texted my friend asking for my number.
Even though we've been texting each other he hasn't said anything flirty, but I'm sure he kind of was that night though.. like holding my hand.. trying to hug me etc... which I'm kind of glad about because I only like him as a friend!
Then this week that guy wasn't there.. but the guy I like was, and it was kind of weird at first like awkward and stuff.. but then we started dancing/talking and it was all right.
Then my friend disappeared while we were dancing, so he took my hand and led me over to the bar to look for her, then stood there for like 30 seconds holding hands.. then let go.
Then we went to leave and we held hands again to walk out and down the stairs and over to where she was (we could see her then) and up some steps and over to the table... in front of them then we let go and sat down and he got my number and put in on his phone..
Then at the next bar we were dancing in a little circle and he kind of pulled me in towards him, then turned me around so he was like rubbing up behind me while we danced.. but he hand his hand like wrapped around my hip and yeah it was awesome haha, and even once the music had stopped he still stood like right behind me.. with his hands on the front of my hips..
And afterwards he said.. that was intense.. and a little later he said it was great dancing and said thank you
So do you think the last guy likes me or not? Because I really like him but don't know... also if the first guy comes out with us next time, then what happens if and the second guy are dancing won't he get jelouse? :confused:
Its so confusing because I think the first guy likes me and I only like him as a friend.. so still don't want to hurt him. Even though he's always dancing with me it feels only like friends for me, but maybe he's just kind of immature? Like being shy or something..
Then I think I am starting to really like the second guy.. It just felt so much more right, like the dancing/holding hands... Way more intense and serious but also but also kind of sexier :cool:
So this one guy last week was dancing with me and like holding my hand when we walked from club to club.. and saying like if any weird or sleazy guys come up to you then I got your back... and then texted my friend asking for my number.
Even though we've been texting each other he hasn't said anything flirty, but I'm sure he kind of was that night though.. like holding my hand.. trying to hug me etc... which I'm kind of glad about because I only like him as a friend!
Then this week that guy wasn't there.. but the guy I like was, and it was kind of weird at first like awkward and stuff.. but then we started dancing/talking and it was all right.
Then my friend disappeared while we were dancing, so he took my hand and led me over to the bar to look for her, then stood there for like 30 seconds holding hands.. then let go.
Then we went to leave and we held hands again to walk out and down the stairs and over to where she was (we could see her then) and up some steps and over to the table... in front of them then we let go and sat down and he got my number and put in on his phone..
Then at the next bar we were dancing in a little circle and he kind of pulled me in towards him, then turned me around so he was like rubbing up behind me while we danced.. but he hand his hand like wrapped around my hip and yeah it was awesome haha, and even once the music had stopped he still stood like right behind me.. with his hands on the front of my hips..
And afterwards he said.. that was intense.. and a little later he said it was great dancing and said thank you
So do you think the last guy likes me or not? Because I really like him but don't know... also if the first guy comes out with us next time, then what happens if and the second guy are dancing won't he get jelouse? :confused:
Its so confusing because I think the first guy likes me and I only like him as a friend.. so still don't want to hurt him. Even though he's always dancing with me it feels only like friends for me, but maybe he's just kind of immature? Like being shy or something..
Then I think I am starting to really like the second guy.. It just felt so much more right, like the dancing/holding hands... Way more intense and serious but also but also kind of sexier :cool: