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rajninder Singh
Mar 27, 2009, 06:08 PM
A couple I know are having trouble with relatioships. The woman gets mad very fast and angry at really little things. Just over a little problem she will just make it into a big problem out of it. So then after that both of them won't talk to each other for 1 week or even two weeks. So can you tell me anything that will work for this couple.

liz28
Mar 27, 2009, 07:00 PM
She has to stop having her tantrums and they need to learn to communicate in a mature, civil matter. Otherwise the relationship won't last or they will be stuck in an unhappy relationship if no one leaves.

What are their ages?

chuff
Mar 28, 2009, 08:13 AM
Honestly, a woman (or a man for that matter) who gets mad very easily for no apparent reason and throws a temper tantrum complete with the silient treatment doesn't need to be in an adult relationship. She's still mentally a child and she needs to take some personal time and learn how to sort out her anger and then how to deal with it. Then when she's established that, she needs to enter a relationship with some understanding of how this will effect that relationship and show some respect to her guy and not go off the deep end for no reason.

She ought to count herself very lucky, because this man is in the minority of men who would put up with this emotionally abusive behavior.

talaniman
Mar 28, 2009, 08:40 AM
I make it a practice not to get in someone's business without an invitation, because what you think is weird, may be what they want.

Has one of them asked for your advice?