After talking to my friend about using a strap-on with her lesbian lover I want to know how do guys feel about a female using one on you? How was the experience?

Also, I would like to hear from females that have used it on their guy.

Any responses are welcome even if your against it or for it.

Thanks for sharing,
Liz

My BF is so afraid of anal,if he saw one of those big old numbers coming at him ,he would run away with his tail between his legs :)

I had to spread the rep Artlady but that was too funny.

I think my fiancé would do the same. He would be like the road runner. =)

My BF is so afraid of anal,if he saw one of those big old numbers coming at him ,he would run away with his tail between his legs :)

Ditto!!

Friend, you don't like strap-ons? Lol

Friend, you don't like strap-ons? Lol

In a word... NO!! :eek:

In a word...............NO !!! :eek:

Your avatar and your response fit perfectly.
He does look like he is saying what you said ,Im cracking up :p

I've asked my hubby if he'd be open (pun intended) to me using a strap on on him, the answer was a resounding NO!!

Why guys? What's good for the goose is good for the gander. Nes pas?

I've asked my hubby if he'd be open (pun intended) to me using a strap on on him, the answer was a resounding NO!!!!!

Why guys? What's good for the goose is good for the gander. Nes pas?

They do like it a little.I think it's a trust issue you want to do :eek: what?

They do like it a little.I think its a trust issue you want to do :eek: what?

Does that mean that women are more trusting then men?

Interesting question me thinks. :)

Does that mean that women are more trusting then men?

Interesting question me thinks. :)


artlady agrees: I was going to say yes but the I thought about it and realized how complex it is.Good forum idea and then we can sticky it:)
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I like the idea of posting the question;

Are women more trusting then men.

Would be interesting to see the responses. ;)

I like the idea of posting the question;

Are women more trusting then men.

Would be interesting to see the responses. ;)

Dig that.I'm considering it now .O.K. the answer is yes.

For complex reasons that we can explore.. :cool:

Does that mean that women are more trusting then men?

Interesting question me thinks. :)I thinks its more a mental thing with many guys. I'll bet there are a lot more open to it than are willing to talk about it.

No way to back that up with statistics however.

I thinks its more a mental thing with many guys. I'll bet there are a lot more open to it than are willing to talk about it.

No way to back that up with statistics however.


I agree, most guys would say no just out of response rather than even thinking about it. If my wife came to me and it was something she really wanted to try I would consider it. I trust her completely. I feel it is only right to take it into consideration. She has tried things I wanted to do sexually that were not her cup of tea.

As long it is her with the strap on and not a man. Its not the act that makes you gay its who your doing the act with.

For me it has nothing to do about trust , my Ani has a function and that is to regurgitate food ::FULL STOP::

There will be no poo pushing going on with this little black doggy :cool:




Your avatar and your response fit perfectly.
He does look like he is saying what you said ,Im cracking up :p


Ps:Glad you had a chuckle Artlady ;)

He says NO!!

So far DSM is the only one willing to consider it. That's amazing to me.

Okay girls, how about all of you! How many of us females are comfortable with anal sex? Yes, no, maybe, NEVER! What's your take on it?

Oops. Liz, if I'm totally taking over this thread please tell me, I'll start a new one. I'm bad, so sorry, forgive me? :o

I am okay with anal and I actually was the one that introduce this experience to my fiancé. Before me he never did it.

This might sound weird but when I first did it I thought it would make your butt bigger so that's why I was open to the idea. Than I find out it wasn't true because my butt didn't get bigger. When I told my mother this, after she got a good laugh, she said " I could have told you that".

I like it, just use a lot of lub!!

I can't stand it, too painful.

My first sexual experience was with anal sex. My belief was that anal sex and oral sex meant "still a virgin" which is technically, in my little world, true! ;)

I enjoy anal sex, but do have to say, lots of lube others it will be painful. Also, you have to trust your partner and be completely relaxed with that person.

There are some major hot spots in the rectum. There are a lot of people out there who don't know what they are missing.

TMI? ;)

I'm too afraid of pooping to relax enough for anal sex... TMI!

Well, I've always wanted to try anal and so does my hubby, but there is something that always holds me back.

I'm too afraid of pooping to relax enough for anal sex....TMI!!

And that's pretty much what holds me back. XD
I don't think I want to do that while having sex.
That's the last thing I want to worry about while being pleasured.

and that's pretty much what holds me back. xD
I don't think I wanna do that while having sex.
That's the last thing I wanna worry about while being pleasured.

I've been having and enjoying anal sex since I was 14 (kids, I don't recommend this, please don't do it, wait, 14 is way too young) and I have never had a bowel movement during anal sex.

Think about it, the whole act of anal sex kind of negates having a bowel movement.

If you really are worried about that (unlikely it would happen, in fact, I'd say impossible) then fast first.

Many people think anal sex is taboo, or it hurts or it's bad for you, if it's done correctly then all of those myths are false.

Really, lots of lube, relax and enjoy! You'll be glad you did.

Wow, am I advertising anal sex on AMHD? Mods, don't kill me. ;)

LOL. I've always wanted to try, but all attempts have been too painful to continue. We used plenty of lube. What does "if its done right" mean?

If it's done right means that you have to be extremely relaxed, willing to experience it. If you are nervous your body will not co-operate and you can hurt yourself or your partner.

Lube is a must, but so is relaxation, otherwise it won't work.

Here's a site I found, read the 5 top tips section, it's accurate. Haven't read the rest, can't say if it is or isn't accurate so reader beware.

Anal Sex Yes: Having Good, Clean, Safe Anal Fun (http://www.analsexyes.com/)

Thanks Alty

Take a poop 2 hours before and the garage will be empty.

I have to be in a really hot mood but we do occasionally.I like it but it plays havoc with my hemorrhoids.:o

You have to be in a certain mood for this back door action. But yours was funny!

I don't know, I have never tried but I would with the right person. I just had this conversation with a man, he was open to me using a strap on on him. Although this was a hypothetical conversation.

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Synnen agrees: Just hope you feel that way about PITCHING anal sex, too.

Absolutely Syn :cool:

Absolutely Syn :cool:

Didn't expect that. You've never tried anal sex M? Can I ask why? Will you answer me if I do ask why? ;)

Didn't expect that. You've never tried anal sex M? Can I ask why? Will you answer me if I do ask why? ;)

Just never really interested me Alty , is that a bad thing?? I'm not saying I wouldn't try it if SHE really wanted it.

Each to his own I suppose ;)

Just never really interested me Alty , is that a bad thing??? I'm not saying I wouldn't try it if SHE really wanted it.

Each to his own I suppose ;)

Not a bad thing, I was just curious. ;)

Big hug Mmykins. :)

I have tried receptive anal (strap-on or similar device.. ) from my wife-it is something that I enjoy-although she does not like the idea of me receiving-so much.

We have tried anal before (her receiving), and she enjoys it. Not very often though.

Interesting to note, anal pushes her over the brink (orgasm) considering she has never climaxed during normal intercourse-it's an intensely pleasurable feeling..

Very open X.

Well done for being so open minded.

From what I have heard a lot of men couldn't do it. (Whether they admit to wanting to or not!)

One day I went to the sex shop with my friend. I brought a few movies and toys. My friend wanted to purchase a strap-on and I asked "why"? That when she informed me that her husband likes it and she likes doing it him. I was taken back!

We were so deep into our conversation that we didn't even notice he had rung up her strap-on along with my things. I had already given him my card to swipe so the only thing for me to do was to sign the receipt, which did.

Since she was coming over to my house afterwards her strap-on was placed in my bag. After lunch, which she paid for, we parted ways due to her being tired.

I went home and later on that day when my fiancé reach home for work, he noticed the bag and was quick to take a peep. He notice the strap-on and asked me "what is this for?" while holding it in his hand. I responded by saying " I got it to use on you".

By the time the words left my mouth his facial expression was priceless and he left the room so fast that I thought he had fire coming from his a**. At least I got a good laugh from it.

Now he has limits when it comes to sex, no strap-ons.

The man who dislikes anal stimulation is the man who has never experienced it. Saying, "it's exit only" is a fear response.

You can run from the room with your tail between you legs or just say no. If you haven't tried it, maybe you're just afraid you will like it and that will make you gay.

Enjoying anal stimulation does not make a man gay! Even if you dislike it, trying it shows that you are brave... Like holding a woman's purse for her. Relax, your thang won't fall off!

My ex "fiance" used to hint towards anal pleasure by moving my hand on his butt during sex or lying next to me with his butt kind of propped next to me while we were sleeping. Then one day I just asked him if he liked anal and he said yes to my surprise. He looked a little ashamed once he admitted. But that night we ended up using a small vibrating dildo on him and it really traumatixed me. It was just so gross in my opinion. They toy smelt like poop and I hated seeing him moan and groan like a woman. It made rerspect him less and I relationship went down from there.

I personally have tried anal sex one time and although it didn't hurt so bad it was NOT pleasurable to me and I felt violated after. My poopys weren't pleasant after either.

Basically my veiw on anal sex is NO.

Thanks for sharing Chrissy and I hope you threw out thag vibrator. Lol

You have to do it more than once to enjoy it... did you quit oral after the first time he popped off in your rmouth surprising you? Or Vaginal sex because it hurt the first time?

Never had a girl try or ask to use a strap on.

Did have a girl who used a small, slender vibe on me anally. It was great. Awesome. Lovely.

I'm of the opinion that during intercourse, when a girl reaches around and plays with "the boys" or engages in anal play, its just out of this world.

Bite my ear and do that and its short time before I am completely over the top in a Major Way.

I don't need it... but even external pressure at the boys "taint", which puts pressure at the prostate, is extremely arousing.

But maybe that's just me.

I am a fan of multiple diversions. I get confused easily. Simple boy like that. So when a woman can hit several erotic areas at once, late in the game, I am completely hers.

*big sigh*

Its been a helluva week.

Anyone who just got her nails done is free to distract me. ;)

Some people just don't know what they are missing. Of course, you need to (both you and her) pick out a good one. The woman also needs to know how to move her hips right. My girlfriend agrees that anal sex is rathes stimulating; but, I must admit that she likes to give a lot more than receive, which is fine by me (she's good, and bought) a rather enjoyable strapon. She likes the feeling that the back side gives her , and she gets off on the joy on my face as she is both gyrating me and giving me the proverbial reach around (actually from the front/top). Don't get me wrong, I enjoy being in her instead, most of the time. Its not the act that makes you gay, its who you do it with - and I like only women. About the saying, though: "Its not the size that matters its the motion of the ocean." BULL! Talented moves definitely are great, but sometimes her plastic giant makes for a wonderful night.

LONE_DAD is right about the size thing. However, size is not important to most vaginas where most of the nerves are toward the opening. Butts are quite different, much, much, much more sensitive, all the way around. A vagina is more like your mouth which isn't the same sensitivity all around. And for men, the prostate is easily stimulated from there.

I've done it. Heck I've bought all the toys involved, including upgrades in size. At first it was an experimentation thing (I wanted in her , so turnabout being fairplay... ) then later it became part of a fantasy situation where she gets to dominate me. It's a wonderful thing (man the nut!) I can honestly say I like pitching and catching equally with my girlfriend.

Can a man orgasm from anal?

Yes, a man is capable of having an orgasm from anal sex just like a female is able to too.

Can a man orgasm from anal?

The mind is the most important sensual organ... so any stim can bring a person over the top if the mind interprets it as such. As I said, what little anal stim a lover had performed on me has been intense.

I have absolutely no interest in men. No interest in a woman using a prosthetic. But a woman using her finger or a vibe anally could bring me close... might need a little "push/pull" also... but anal stim alone would probably go a long way toward the end...

Can a man orgasm from anal?

Yes! Normally I include some handwork for myself (I'm new so I'm not sure what the boundaries on terminology are yet) and that's mindblowing, but I've popped just from the penetration.

Can a man orgasm from anal?Supposedly, though it would be via direct prostrate stimulation... done right you can ejaculate without actually climaxing. But no, its not something I can vouche for personally.

Oh, Geez Louise yes! Not only does a good stretch make for an enormous blue vein throbber, but I have blown gigantic loads that covered us both. To top that off, when my girlfriend sees that, she squirts every bit as much from behind her strap. She then usually wants me inside her (vagina) while she is wearing it. That is the only time I have EVER blown my load and been able to maintain an erection.

I was actually really curious about what my boyfriend would say about this, so I asked him. And he said he would try anything once, if I really wanted to try it. Which is pretty much exactly what I thought he would say. Lol

Great question!! Easy answer... What are you doing tonight? :D:D:D. Having anything from a finger or strap on sliding in my is the most erotic thing ever. Guys have a prostrate which feels great when it is messaged. I am not gay, but I love being dominated by women, and a lot of women love to dominate guys. I am still looking for the love of my life, as my wife is very submissive. Email me if you have any more questions. EMAIL REMOVED

Great question!!! Easy answer...What are you doing tonight? :D:D:D. Having anything from a finger or strap on sliding in my is the most erotic thing ever. Guys have a prostrate which feels great when it is messaged. I am not gay, but I love being dominated by women, and a lot of women love to dominate guys. I am still looking for the love of my life, as my wife is very submissive. Email me if you have any more questions. ]

How in the world are you looking for the love of your life if your married? If she isn't the love of your life why did you marry her?

Also, it isn't good to put your email on your response.

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45notdaddy agrees: I don't put too much stock in that reply, sounds like an invite to get spammed to death.

I kind of get that message to from reading his post but I got a man. Don't need nor want anyone else.

I have tried and tried anal.. lube,toys the lot.. but still my bottom won't comply.. my heads in the game but my bottom is disabled,
Even with an experienced partner.
There's just no going in through the out door.

Yes but when you try it are you relaxed?

Yes but when you try it are you relaxed?

I have been so relaxed I've nearly been in a coma,an inch later and my bottom muscles just spasm... im open to the idea (no pun intended),but.. ach,I don't know.. ive no hang ups about sex,but ill keep the idea on the table.

I love anal. As long as its with the right person, lots of lube and they start gently. My boyfriend and I have been together eight years and it was not until the fourth year we were together when he asked if we wanted to experiment with it (on him not me) he said that if I did he wouldn't mind trying. Now he's extremely homophobic and used to say the act would make him "gay" now he realizes that its not the act it's the person your doing it with. I have my own strap-on (for female to female "fun") and we went out and bought a smaller one for us to try. Now that he's done it a few times he loves the feeling. Occasionally we ask each other if we would like to try new things and if we both agree we go for it. I have yet to come across something I wouldn't try (except for anything illegal or morally wrong) though some fetishes I've heard of completely turn me off. (as I write this he is sitting here laughing at me because I am trying not to use imporoper wording)

i have been so relaxed ive nearly been in a coma,an inch later and my bottom muscles just spasm...im open to the idea (no pun intended),but..ach,i dont know..ive no hang ups about sex,but ill keep the idea on the table.
You aren't as relaxed as you think you are if your sphincter is spasming... you need a bit more practice with learning concience control over involuntary reflex action. When you do learn that you will not have those spasms, at all. You don't learn that overnight... but converesly it really doesn't take all that long either.

I am very lucky to have such an open minded boyfriend. Sometimes I wish every guy was as open minded though