I am in my second marriage of about 1 year, I have 3 children from previous marriage under the age of 10. My current wife does not want the children at the house and Vowed to be mean to them
She plans to file fro divorce if I continue with any meaningful or cordial relationship with my children
Should I let her go

Yes, and don't let the door hit her in the behind!

If she had an issue with your children why did she marry you?

And most importantly, why promise to be mean to children?

What did they do to set her off?

Yes of course get rid of her asap

Yes.now.hurry.

What the Hell? Run don't walk! This sounds like the evil stepmother. Why would you even slow down for a woman like this? And tell your children how very sorry you are. I know your hurt , but so are they, and their innocent. They don't deserve this.:(

This is such a stupid question. It is kind of unbelievable. Your children come first and always should. Your partner does not want them. Screw her. Your current wife is a mental case.

Get out.

This is such a stupid question. It is kind of unbelievable. Your children come first and always should. Your partner does not want them. Screw her. Your current wife is a mental case.

Get out.


Thanks J, had to spread the rep! But you hit it dead on!

Why do you EVEN have to ask? This is a no brainer buddy! Your CHILDREN come first. You made a BAD choice when you married this woman. Get your shoes on and run... quickly... to the COURTHOUSE!

Your wife should be ashamed of herself! So as you should be for not sticking up for your children before this point! Unbelievable!

One more thing! Get down on your knees and THANK GOD for your children, and then sit them down and tell them how sorry DADDY is, that he didn't wake up and smell the coffee. Don't EVER EVER put a woman or your own selfish needs ahead of your children!

I have another question: Did she just suddenly start hating your kids after being married to you for a year- or was she always this way?? Because I have to wonder why you'd marry her in the first place.

I have determined that this surely can NOT be a legitimate post. No one can be this big of an idiot.

She VOWS to be mean to them??

No Brainer!!

Yes get rid of her your children should come first no matter what

I can't believe you took time away from packing her things to post this. You need to hurry - time's awasting. Quit getting married for the time being and enjoy being a father. If you're reading this and you haven't filed for divorce - you aren't being fast enough. If the children are aware of her attitude - then definitely tell them Daddy made a mistake and he's now going to fix it. Later on they will appreciate the fact that you don't think you're perfect. (Trying hard here to resist the urge to say "What were you thinking!! ) Now - HURRY!