Ineed you to ask my late husband Michael why he needed to take his own life if what he was accused of was true if so why

I'm sorry for your loss and obvious upset and confusion but don't understand what you are asking. This is a bereavement board where people who have suffered terrible personal losses exchange thoughts and ideas. No one here knows why your husband took his own life.

If he did not leave a note or a letter you will never know why,
What is important is to keep your memory of him as good as possible

I have good idea of what you are going through, somebody very close to me committed suicide also.

We will never know what was going through their minds at the time they make that decision.

Often they see no way out, when in reality suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem.

They also usually don't want to go, but by the time they realize that, it is too late.

Just know that they will always love you, and even though it was not his way or time to go, you'll see him again someday. Until then, accept his spirit into your heart.

Best wishes.

I have good idea of what you are going through, somebody very close to me commited suicide also.

We will never know what was going through their minds at the time they make that decision.

Often they see no way out, when in reality suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem.

They also usually don't want to go, but by the time they realize that, it is too late.

Just know that they will always love you, and even though it was not his way or time to go, you'll see him again someday. Until then, accept his spirit into your heart.

Best wishes.


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Actually it was not closed but it is now