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quratulain
Mar 14, 2009, 02:56 AM
I am lonely I actually have no one to listen to me except on internet please be friend with me I want to share when the people at my home reject me,ignore me,insult me...
sarnian
Mar 14, 2009, 04:01 AM
Hello quratulain
Any specific requirements or preferences for people who like to react?
Where is 'home' ?
KellBells17
Mar 14, 2009, 09:02 PM
What's going on??
Clough
Mar 15, 2009, 12:10 AM
Hi, quratulain!
You already know that there are a number of us on this site who are willing to share about things with you. I am one of them.
You've started a thread here, so information shared does need to remain on this thread so that others might benefit by the information that's shared who might also have similar questions like you have.
Your personal email address will soon be removed.
If you would like, there are some things that we might be able to do right on this site that might help you to feel better about yourself.
I really mean that. It can happen!
Please let me know if you're interested...
Thanks!
quratulain
Mar 15, 2009, 07:48 AM
Thank you Clough!
You have certainly assured me and given me boost thank you and yes thank you for telling me that something is going to be arranged for me thank you.so tell me what is it?
At home means there is 44 year old woman who is mom just by words and dad just by words not from heart .their love and affections has decreased and now almost finshed because I feel Extra in their presence and they don't talk with me unless for their work.I am lucky to have a computer and internet on it.I live in Pakistan,Lahore.
quratulain
Mar 15, 2009, 07:52 AM
Thank you! Yes would like to know what are you doing for me on this site.
Thank you!
sarnian
Mar 15, 2009, 08:43 AM
Dear Quratulain
"i live in Pakistan, Lahore".
Nice to meet you here. You are one of the very few from Pakistan, participating on this forum.
"would like to know what are you doing for me on this site".
Well, it is more what we all can do together! This website has so many boards, that some of them should be of your interest. Just click the Home button on the top line to get there, and see where your own interest guides you. Or provide us a short list of your interests here, to allow some of us to advice you.
Officially this is a question and answer board, but there are many (social) boards where there is more some form of chat taking place.
chuff
Mar 15, 2009, 05:51 PM
What up Qurat?
Where are you from?
How old are you?
I can relate the to parental issues myself, as I had a lot of them, but as I got older I realized their issues were not my issues. When they are doing whatever they are doing you have to accept they have problems that are not your own. Many problems are self created, and I encourage you recognize problems created by them, and not accept them as yours.
Clough
Mar 15, 2009, 05:55 PM
Hi again, quratulain!
One of the things that I like to do with people here, is to help them to write songs that are set to music. Anybody can do it. It's just a matter of if they're willing to try or not. Even if someone has never written the lyrics to a song, I can help them to write the lyrics, and also help them to actually be able to play the melody to their song that we've written together.
I also like to share here with persons in other kinds of artistic ways too.
If you're interested, please let me know.
Thanks!
chuff
Mar 15, 2009, 06:00 PM
Hi again, quratulain!
One of the things that I like to do with people here, is to help them to write songs that are set to music. Anybody can do it. It's just a matter of if they're willing to try or not. Even if someone has never written the lyrics to a song, I can help them to write the lyrics, and also help them to actually be able to play the melody to their song that we've written together.
I also like to share here with persons in other kinds of artistic ways too.
If you're interested, please let me know.
Thanks!
Really? Something like, "Chuff, he's got the stuff, I can't enough! He might look rough, he doesn't bite, but he will put up a fight, that's Chuff!
This could go platinum!
Clough
Mar 15, 2009, 06:33 PM
Piece is coming! I'm working on it..
Clough
Mar 15, 2009, 06:43 PM
Piece is done! But, I need to re-start my computer because my screen capture utility has disappeared. I found it, but am not able to get it to work.
I will return in a little while...
Thanks!
Clough
Mar 15, 2009, 07:46 PM
Okay, here's your piece, Chuff!
I changed the words slightly so that they would fit a melody better. Each of the words goes with one note at a time.
Here are the words the way that I changed them.
Chuff, he's got the stuff, I can't get enough! He might look rough, he doesn't bite, but will put up a fight, that is our Chuff!
Thanks!
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Clough
Mar 15, 2009, 09:00 PM
Comments on this post
chuff agrees: If ever there was a 5 star post, this is that post!!
Hey thanks, Chuff! That was very nice of you!
The melody could go many different ways. I just wanted to give you a quick example.
quratulain
Mar 15, 2009, 09:30 PM
Thank you clough!
I really want to write songs and their lyrics and do you know that I like piano and violin,I used to play kids piano when I was little and I made the happy birthday tune.
I donot know what are notes and how do you follow those symbols in piano notes I want to learn it can you guide me.
Clough
Mar 15, 2009, 09:53 PM
Hi, quratulain!
Yes, I'll be happy to help you! I think that you should start a new thread for something like that though. We can talk about starting the new thread in a different forum topic area here. I just wanted to make sure that I responded to you as quickly as possible.
Thanks!
quratulain
Mar 16, 2009, 02:00 AM
Thank you!
Clough
Mar 16, 2009, 02:08 AM
I'm here right now, quratulain!
Clough
Mar 16, 2009, 02:15 AM
Are you there, quratulain?
quratulain
Mar 16, 2009, 07:55 PM
Oh sorry I just posted thank you and got off from the computer at that time.
Clough
Mar 17, 2009, 12:04 AM
Hi, quratulain!
Someone else has started a song that I'm working on with her that can be found via clicking on the following link.
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/writing/how-write-song-one-love-330210.html
You could do the same kind of thing in that forum topic area where I could then help you.
Thanks!
tanuta
Mar 17, 2009, 12:26 AM
Yeah really people in your home sometimes ignore you and avoid u?
Great that happens with everybody dear!
U have a home buddy,thnk of the millions surviving,starving and screaming to the whole world for help, streching out hands for somebody to listen!!
U are avoided in home, and shouted upon at times because you must be doing something wrong, grow up buddy, what a shame , having everything in the world you cry for such petty thngs!
Clough
Mar 17, 2009, 01:12 AM
yeah really people in ure home sometimes ignore u and avoid u?
great that happens with everybody dear!
u have a home buddy,thnk of the millions surviving,starving and screaming to the whole world for help, streching out hands for somebody to listen!!!
u are avoided in home, and shouted upon at times because u must be doing something wrong, grow up buddy, what a shame , having everything in the world u cry for such petty thngs!
Hi, tanuta!
I don't think that it's a good idea to be so hard on someone until you've learned something about the person that they are and the actual conditions under which they live. Do you think that it's a good idea to do that - to judge before finding out some things about a person?
We have many different cultures of people on this site. Some are rich, some are poor, some have just enough to make ends meet, some might even be using a computer from a friends home or the library because they might not have one at home. All make use of this site for an individual reason.
We like to think of this site as being very user-friendly, just plain friendly and a place where people can get the help that they need.
You just joined. Please don't be so quick to judge others, and if you use correct spelling and grammar here rather than chat speak, you'll be likely to understood the best!
Thank you!
sarnian
Mar 17, 2009, 04:30 AM
u are avoided in home, and shouted upon at times because u must be doing something wrong.
Is that a personal problem? Do you have brothers and/or sisters who meet the same problems? Is it perhaps a local cultural problem? Is your family stressed financially? Without sufficient information it is extremely difficult to understand what the basic problem here is. You? Your parents? Your society?
Can you please provide some background information on your situation?
quratulain
Mar 22, 2009, 04:47 AM
It is a local cultural problem?my parents are good but they restrain me from certain things only because of this society for example, girls could not go out of home ,cannot drive motorbike etc.
Can anyone tell me about any international organizations which could help in this situation?
sarnian
Mar 22, 2009, 05:56 PM
Hello quratulain
Once more : what seems to upset you is the culture in your own society, specially the restraint there is in Islamic countries on female development. And Pakistan politics is partly based on Islamic culture. Here in Europe and America we hardly have any restraint on women.
As to your request for contacts :
Please follow this link for (international) organizations in Pakistan supporting women development. (http://www.peacewomen.org/contacts/asia/pakistan/pak_index.html)
Clough
Mar 23, 2009, 12:56 AM
Hi again, quratulain!
Are you still interested in doing something musical on this site? Doing so might help the way that you feel.
Thanks!
Ejaz646
Mar 25, 2009, 01:35 PM
Hi,
Quratulan, I am also from your City. Would you like to share me what's kind of problem you have ?
L-001-06-H
Mar 29, 2009, 07:48 AM
I've got some friends in pakistan, if you'd like I can talk to them about exchanging emails.. the guys I know live in karachi, not sure if you live anywhere near there, but I'm sure they'd be willing to talk...
I'm 19yrs old, I'm currently in iwakuni, japan... I'm an american, and my home is actually in the united states however. I have friends around the world though, and I love learning about other cultures and ways of life.. if you're looking for someone to talk to, I'm the guy that'll listen... just be aware ahead of time that I'm overly cynical most of the time.
Email is:
[email protected]
Allah Hafiz,
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