Yup, I've accepted the fact that they don't care anymore.. so I don't even bother wondering why they don't call,message,text and whatever. I'm too busy thinking of ways to help myself when thoughts of him pop up in my head. I think this time is all about us and what makes us happy, so don't bother thinking about if she cares or not, if she cared, she wouldn't be seeing someone right now... stay strong!

Guys I have a question. I've been in NC with my ex for 4 weeks now and yet she doesn't even bother trying to contact me. Does she really don't give a damn about me after everything?
Why should she, your history. Your also dwelling on her still, when you know full well what everyone will say to you... get off that pity pot!! :eek:

Your starting to repeat yourself!



I want someone to love me and only me and appreciate me and be loyal to me but at the same time I want that girl to be that person.


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Why should she, your history. Your also dwelling on her still, when you know full well what everyone will say to you............get off that pity pot!!!:eek:

Your starting to repeat yourself!!



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I know I know I can't help it I just came here looking for some comfort. I can't seem to let go or move on even though I try and trust me I've tried so hard but apparently not enough...

Hey guys its about a month since I last talked to my ex but I've realized some things. When I was with my ex I was this mean person because I was always in a bad mood but now I'm nicer to my family and not always mad at them and my friends even told me I've become nicer.

I also find I have more time to do my own things now like read the best sellers and actually play my guitar again which I couldn't before because all my time was given to her.

Hey guys its about a month since i last talked to my ex but i've realized some things. When i was with my ex i was this mean person because i was always in a bad mood but now im nicer to my family and not always mad at them and my friends even told me i've become nicer.

I also find i have more time to do my own things now like read the best sellers and actually play my guitar again which i couldnt before because all my time was given to her.

Keep doing what your doing, you going to be OK, keep busy, forget the ex, they are in the darkside and they are in the dark. We are in the light and progressing towards happiness.

Guys what's wrong with me? I've been really moody lately. Every little thing people do pisses me off. Their mean sarcastic jokes, them trying to be smart, their mean comments, I get really pissed off then all of a sudden I start crying out of no where. I don't feel good lately. My friend told me it was stress and she does that too. Is it normal?

It could be stress. Most likely its just you processing all of this. Its OK to be pissed off. You will go through phases like that. Just try not to dwell on the past and keep looking to the future. This all shall pass in time.

Hey, just wanted to let you know that I've been very emotional these days too... I think I fell back in the depression hole again... I don't really remember what I did the last couple of days except for crying crying and more crying. But I think this is just part of the healing process and I think it is perfectly normal that you feel this way.. we got to keep moving on!

Guess what! I've made my next step in NC!

Before that I had my ex's contact saved as some random names to remind myself, and I kept the whole bunch of sweet text messages she sent me since 2006.

I've finally deleted them! ( With the help of this post and also some rocking music ;p) I see all of them as such a friggin empty promises, saying that we'll be together under God's arrangement etc.. Thank you LORD! How great the bond is,was is just how deep the sword of love stabbed me!

Keep it up none12345

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