View Full Version : There's a girl in my school that I like but she has a boyfriend: seeking assistance!
Askmeexperrt21
Mar 13, 2009, 02:28 PM
There's a girl in my school that I like but she has a boyfriend and I've never been in this situation before. So what should I do? Should I give up?:(
Justwantfair
Mar 13, 2009, 02:30 PM
Girl with boyfriend = OFF LIMITS.
You should give up or just be her friend.
Askmeexperrt21
Mar 13, 2009, 02:42 PM
I was kind of afraid you'd say that. The thing that really gets me is that they just started dating yesterday and her boyfriend was one of my best friends. He didn't even like her until I told him that I did. He even came up with a bogus lie.
Justwantfair
Mar 13, 2009, 02:48 PM
That is not a very good friend, especially to be called one of your best friends.
Askmeexperrt21
Mar 13, 2009, 02:51 PM
Yeah I know what you mean. Its just, I've thought about giving up but I cant. I can't get her out of my head. Its driving me absolutely insane! On top of this, she barely even knows him.:(
Wondergirl
Mar 13, 2009, 02:51 PM
I'm guessing they won't last long if he is such a con man and that disloyal to his friends.
Be her friend and lie low. Be patient. Be your nicest self. Don't give away any more secrets. Your chance will come soon.
Askmeexperrt21
Mar 13, 2009, 02:54 PM
In the meantime, how can I focus on my schoolwork?:confused:
Wondergirl
Mar 13, 2009, 03:00 PM
Knowing that this "relationship" won't last should encourage you to be the best you can be. Girls don't like stupid guys who slop through school and don't do homework. They like smart guys who are ambitious and responsible. So take this time to hone your personality and character so you will be ready.
Askmeexperrt21
Mar 13, 2009, 03:03 PM
If the smart guy thing is true then she shouldn't be going out with him. He fails everything while on the other hand, not to brag but I'm one of the smartest kids in my school.
Askmeexperrt21
Mar 13, 2009, 03:41 PM
Thanks for the help and advice. However, any other tips or advice would be greatly appreciated.:)
Wondergirl
Mar 13, 2009, 05:07 PM
if the smart guy thing is true then she shouldnt be going out with him. he fails everything while on the other hand, not to brag but im one of the smartest kids in my school.
Oh, but doncha know? Girls like to "fix" people, so they are attracted to "bad boys." She'll come to her senses, don't worry. Be sweet to her and be her friend. She will need you soon.
neverme
Mar 13, 2009, 06:04 PM
Why did he get banned?
neverme
Mar 13, 2009, 06:23 PM
Just wondering
Wondergirl
Mar 13, 2009, 06:26 PM
why?
Tell him he sounds like a cool guy and to keep his hopes up for that girl!
ScottGem
Mar 13, 2009, 06:49 PM
Why did he get banned?
Because he refused to obey the rules of this site.
JoeCanada76
Mar 13, 2009, 06:53 PM
Why not just close the whole thread...
Fr_Chuck
Mar 13, 2009, 07:03 PM
And I came in and deleted over 1/2 of the posters other questions for being without purpose or juv.
And this thread closed also.