Okay I've Known This Girl For Sometime Now. We Are Very Good Friends And I Really Really Like Her. I Mean She Is Truly Something Special To Me. But The Dilemma Im Faced With Is That Im Not Sure What I Should Do? What I Mean By That Is, She Says She Likes But She Says She Also Isn't Ready For A Relationship Right Now, And I Have Told Her My Feelings For Her. But My Thing Is When We Hang Out Its Almost Like Were A Couple. Because We Hold Hands Like A Couple, Cuddle Up With Each Other Like A Couple, And She Even Kisses Me Sometimes Like Were A Couple. Also We Had A Great Valentines Day This Past Valentine. We Get Along Very Very Well, Never Have We Argued Over Anything. We Also Have Plenty Of Things In Common. But As For Her Previous Relationships, She Says She Had Some Bad Ones In The Past. Especially Her Last One, We Didn't Get Into Much Detail About It, But Im Guessing It Was A Bit Tough. Also We Really Don't Talk On The Phone A lot, Cus She's Really Busy With Her School & Her Work, And I Don't Want Her To Feel Like Im A Nuisance So We Do IMs A lot. But My Thing Is Does She Really Like Me Like Dat? Or She Is Using Me? Or Is She Just Playing With Me And My Emotions? Or Is She Really Saying I Like You, But Not Seriously Enough To Move On? But As I Write This Im Thinking About Her And Knowing Dat I Can Make Her So Happy. And Treat Her So Right. I Just Want to Be That Guy She's Never Seen And I Just Want to Prove Her Wrong On All Ideas She Has Of Guys. And I Know We Enjoy Each Others Company, Because Were Forever Flirting And Laughing At Each Other. But I Have Nothing But Good Intentions And A Sincere Heart For This Girl And All I Really Want to Do Is Just Make Her Mine!

Not every word needs a capital first letter!

If you learn to write properly, with paragraphs and spacing you will get a lot more answers on this board.

Move on, you've told her that you like her, she's told you she's not interested in a relationship. Maybe if your not around as much she'll see what she missing.

It's like the saying 'Why buy the horse when you can get the milk for free?'

She gets the emotional support, cuddling, hugs and kissing without having to commit.

:)

I'm not the best writter either kid ;) but I get my points out there =D

I agree. Don't wait around for people to be.. ready to date you..

if you do that.. then you are living by other peoples time tables.. and that is never a good thing my friend

kind regards

Since you can't enjoy the good times, leave her alone, because she has told you point blank, the rest of that stuff you want ain't happening.

I don't think she is using you, unless your letting yourself be used.

She has told you her intentions, let it be from that. Please don't type like that, it hurts the older peoples eyes(like mine)