Hello everyone I've been having some problems with my girlfriend and I don't know what to do. Here's the story me and my girlfriend have been going out since 1/29/09 and it seemed to be a pretty good relationship. But now I noticed some things. One major thing is I'm always the one going out of the way to talk to her. Ill see her in the hallway and she won't even come over to sat hi she will just keep walking. Another thing is she won't even sit next to me in lunch (yes we are in the same lunch class) and when I walk over to her table to sit next to her she walks away to another table with other friends. Another thing I noticed is that she acts different when its her and I and friends then she would act when it was just her and me. And another thing is that she never wants me to call her for some reason. If I call her she will just send me a text message saying "why did you call me?" Another thing is that she never accepts my invitations to come over my house yet she will go over this other kids house (she says he's her best freund) And a few weeks ago we where walking in the hallway and she ditched me to go talk to the same kid. Another thing that bothers me a lot is that she is always talking about how she loves people more then me. Yet while where alone she will say that I don't love anyone more then you. Another thing is that I love skateboarding a lot but last week she sends me a video of this random kid skateboarding and she told me that he was better then me when he sucked (I really don't like talking bad about skateboarders because every skater had a time where they sucked) I told her that he was not better then me and she said that he was and that I sucked. Now it turns out that we won't be able to hang out for my birthday because she is to busy hanging out with her friends. Also in the hallway she will walk up to other guys give them a hug and start talking to them. It pisses me off because she walks up to other guys and starts conversations with them while I have to meet up with her and start a conversation. Another problem is that she is always to busy to go and hang out. This weekend we won't be able to hang out because she is hanging out with her friends. And another thing is while we are on dates she will be texting other people throughout the whole time. I really like this girl and that's probably the only reason where still together but what do you think Should I break up with her? What do you think I should do?

Gee, she sounds like a real peach. You're really unsure about whether you should stay in this situation?

Head for the hills! You listed about 20 negatives about her. This is not how genuine relationships work. She should want to talk and spend time with you as much as you want to see her. She shouldn't make you feel bad by comparing you to other guys. And anyone who acts ashamed to be seen with you, isn't into you.

Sounds like she just likes the attention you give her and it's an ego boost for her. Don't waste any more time on this girl.