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Navybabe
Mar 6, 2009, 09:31 PM
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There's is this guy obviously.Back in like 2007. I met him on the internet on myspace right? I had a boyfriend at the time,the boyfriend was bad news all wrong for me cuban el savadorian so anyway,I met this guy on myspace ,he lived in louisianna well come to find out he was just enlisting in the Army,so he went through basic and then I started having problems with the idiot my boyfriend so the myspace guy and I would talk about it.
Then out of nowhere he wrote me after a year of talking ,that he started having feelings for.. me.
So.. I took it like whatever.A couple more months go by and I am like you know I really like him too.
So I broke up with the loser and called Nick which is the guy I met on myspace, so I told him you know I want to be your girl ,I broke up with Eddie I don't know if you have a girl or what this is like months and months after he told me that he had feeling for.. me.
So.. then after that things started to take off you know,he was saying I want to be with you bla bla. So a couple of months go by we are still together, we talk every night,then he decides hey I am going to go to cali. Which is where I lived,so he went to cali I met him in person.fall in love.Anyways couple of months go by and things start to go down the ter.This is where he is in A.I.T. in the army . So he tells me I'm sending you a ticket to come to fort. Campbell,so I'm like wow okay. So I get on a plane for the first time in my life.
I have never been on a plane , I was terrified of planes,but I did it for.. him.
So.. make a long story short I go there,had an okay time.
Besides the fact that he didn't really take me anywhere in Kentucky so anyway, he drops me off at the airport to go home after about a week and a half, I thought of course he's going to stay with me,intell my plane gets here, nope he told me his SRGT needed him to help him on his test he was having problems with or something like.. that.
So.. anyway I get hom 2 weeks laster he breaks up with.. me.
He.. had all these excuses and they all made no sense except for he's being deployed and he didn't want to come back all mest up and not the same guy I.. knew.
So.. I am hurt. I am feeling so much so I get on this rampage where I'm just calling the guy 24/7 you know and he's like stop I moved on... he couldn't talk to me for more than like 5 min.
He would say I got to.. go.
So.. I tried and I tried and I tried.. weeks then months till about a year till about a year and a half I got the same reasponse stop!! I've moved on. Well sometimes I would get I still love you. Or I would getim sorry. Stuff like that ,made me believe that he still cared you know.After all the name calling and everything.Sometimes he would sayim going to call you.. never does.
Till I call then itss like I can't talk to.. you.
So.. I started to lay low and started kind of giving up little at a.. time.
He.. goes to Afganastan this is this year right. Actually in December. So he leaves.I write him an email saying you know hope all is well. Bla bla why haven't you wrote,so a week later I get an email saying I've been thinking a lot lately since I've been here in Afganastan and I miss you and love you and when I get out of here we can have a life together like we talked about I just need to get this done I'm sorry for everything and I was never happy I just kept it inside tried not to think about it.. so I'm like wow.Hes finally coming through. So I sent him a care package 2 weeks ago.. since the 9th I haven't heard anything back and he says if something were to happen to him he would have somebody contact.. me.
So.. I don't know if he's being real. Or being like he was before you know just dragging me along making it up,or is he being serious,or is he hurt or worst and just hasn't got time to say thank you for the package and write back?? Am I not good enough? Does he still love me like he says? You know.. ive been with so many othe rguys for the last year and a half we have been broken up and nothing has been the same... so that's my problem for 2 years

talaniman
Mar 7, 2009, 06:56 AM
Take the hint, and leave him alone as he may be trying to spare your feelings in case the worse happens, so back off. He has told you many times, in a nice way to move on, and stop waiting, and you really need to listen.

Sorry!

unouwanit666
Mar 8, 2009, 02:48 AM
I was in a relationship once that was kindof like that- but he wasn't in the army- he just wanted to BE in the army...

... it was his lame excuse for cheating on me "i can't be attatched to anyone blah blah blah"

-BUT! I do not think he's cheating on you I just think that maybe he sees you as sort of his "on-call girlfriend"



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