SpringRose
Mar 4, 2009, 07:11 AM
Well, Oct 2007 my boyfriend of 4 years broke up with me for another girl. I didn't see or spk to him for a few months until he contacted me saying he'd made a huge mistake. I took him back only for him to decide it wasn't what he wanted. Two months of texting, seeing and sleeping with each other (while he was doing the same with the girl he left me for originally) we decided to give it another go. Three months on from this I found out he'd been speaking to 'her' again so we broke up. While we were together however he became close with a girl a couple of years younger than him. I always thought something was going on but he denied it.
After breaking up for the final time, sure as night follows day he starts seeing this new girl. I didn't see or speak to him for a month until he asks to meet for a drink. I go, he tells me he still loves me and wants things to work but that we need to take things slow and work at being friends. He promises to stop messing around with this girl and work on us. Very sensible I think! However the night after she stayed at his, and they still go to the cinema and out for dinner 3/4 times a week. I am insanly jealous but have kept my mouth shut. Am I being played for a fool?
It seems like every time I go to move on he's there promising the world. He tells me its going to take a long time for us to get back together. I want nothing more than for it to work but in the mean time it appears that he can still mess her around while telling me I have no say in what or who he does because we're not together?
Am I being clingy or just stupid?
After breaking up for the final time, sure as night follows day he starts seeing this new girl. I didn't see or speak to him for a month until he asks to meet for a drink. I go, he tells me he still loves me and wants things to work but that we need to take things slow and work at being friends. He promises to stop messing around with this girl and work on us. Very sensible I think! However the night after she stayed at his, and they still go to the cinema and out for dinner 3/4 times a week. I am insanly jealous but have kept my mouth shut. Am I being played for a fool?
It seems like every time I go to move on he's there promising the world. He tells me its going to take a long time for us to get back together. I want nothing more than for it to work but in the mean time it appears that he can still mess her around while telling me I have no say in what or who he does because we're not together?
Am I being clingy or just stupid?