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bonittah
Mar 3, 2009, 05:01 AM
Hi,
The past 6months I met with a guy whom I stupidly fell in love with... he told me that he was single and has only one son,well I don't have a child but I didn't have a problem with his son,it was not longer than a month that we knew each other then we had one steamy love making. Only after that day he only phoned me once and I never seen him again, I phoned him several times to suggest for our second date but he always makes an excuse to see me, I love him what should I do...

tickle
Mar 3, 2009, 05:08 AM
I hate to say this bonittah, but I think you were taken for a ride and all he really wanted was a roll in the hay. I would write him off and move on. Who knows, could be he was actually married.

Ms tickle

ROLCAM
Mar 3, 2009, 05:13 AM
Do NOT be a slave for punishment.
Just wipe him off memory.
My best advice, I am a 78 year old male.

Fr_Chuck
Mar 3, 2009, 05:13 AM
Severa possible and you won't know unless he talks with you.

1. Sure he is not married
2. he only wanted to have sex and now he is moving on
3. he was not ready to have sex since past relationship and is feeling guilty and does not know what to say
4. it was not as good for him as for you and he lost interest
5. He has fear of commitment and does not know what to do know

Romefalls19
Mar 3, 2009, 11:12 AM
Sadly you found out the hard way what his intentions were. Next time be a little smarter and be more carefeul with decisions.

talaniman
Mar 6, 2009, 10:30 AM
He got what he wanted and a date wasn't it. Your body was. Sorry, take more than a month to know someone before the steamy stuff starts.

MiSSsy111222
Mar 6, 2009, 12:57 PM
Sorry about your circumstances some men are s**#. But yes all above are right. Drop his sorry @ss quick and find someone who won't use you.