I want my husband to come home he left me a few days ago, he's turned off his phone I can't get hold of him through anyone. He hasn't told me its over but rang up and told his mum that it was over between us. I need to speak to him but can't find him anywhere and there is four children involed. Do you know how I can find him?

You have to give more detail, why he left. Did you see this coming, was their problems in the marriage? How long were you married to him?

We were'nt rowing. It seems like he's gone off the rails. I don't know why he left maybe it was freedom. I don't think it was for another women. We've been married just over a year. Were both young I'm 22 he's 24.

You have to give more detail, why he left. Did you see this coming, was their problems in the marriage? How long were you married to him?
We have only been married just over a year. I didn't see this coming. I have been suffering from depression and that's probably been a bit hard on him. We do have four young children the youngest being 11 months and the oldest only being 5. I just want to find him, talk to him like adults, if its what he really wants then I accept that I can't make him be here if he don't want to be. But I need to know where me and the children stand.

Please do not start a new thread to give more info, these are not blogs, other readers will never match up your various posts.

I have merged them together, please merely "answer" your own question to add more info

Wow, sorry to hear that, only married a year, and you have four children. First thing to do is stay strong! You have to take care of your children right now, this is your main concern. Hopefully you have some family to support you at this time. I don't know if he left because of your depression, sounds like you have a lot on your plate with four young children. That must be hard on you, that in itself can put a strain on your marriage and you yourself. That's a lot to handle at a very young age. Women at your age, aren't even tied down, and kids beside. Get some kind of support right now. Don't contact him, it sounds like he doesn't want to talk to you at this time, and but you have to honor it. He has an obligation to those children, are they all his? It might be all too much for him to handle, I don't know. Is he going through something?
What led up to this? No warnings?