View Full Version : Crazy crush. Affecting freindship.I think
jojo114
Feb 27, 2009, 05:51 PM
okay so I kind of really really really like this guy, and no matter what he does I can't seem to stop, I don't know how to ,it seems impossible for me to stop. I know he doesn't really care much about me but still... I try to avoid him and sometimes when he's two feet away from me and knows I see him I don't bother talking or saying hi cause I know I make things awkward wayyyy to awkward. I used to be cool with him and like talk about any random stupidity and even if he found it stupid I wouldn't care but now it seems so hard for me not to care. I really like this guy and there's no way in hell that I'm going to ever tell him, I just don't know how to get back to the friend state, I think I seriously need help cause I feel like I'm pushing him away as a friend and maybe whatever else I want... HELP ME PLEASE, ANY ADVICE WILL HELP!
NateStone
Feb 27, 2009, 10:44 PM
Hmm, let's explore this further :) more information is need
Are you just avoiding him because you just think it will be akward around him? How long have you known each other? And how old are you and him?
jojo114
Feb 28, 2009, 04:24 PM
You that's why wenever I'm around him no matter what I do I seem to make it awkward... well we've known each other for about 1 year and he's 16 and I'm 15 but were in the same grade (highschool)
NateStone
Feb 28, 2009, 10:32 PM
Haha all right so this whole thing is just a self-confidence issue
You say that you used to talk cool to him with no problems at all until you started realizing that you really like him. I have three options for you:
1. Trying crushing on another guy, which would lessen your feelings for the guy making it easier for you to talk him maybe.
2. When talking to him forget about everything and just be yourself and let your mind roll, maybe it's his fault for making the convos akward and your just assume it's your fault.
3. Ask him to hang out sometime with just the two of you. You'd be surprised about how many things you can learn about a person and make long conversations about it. Doing so would surely make talking to him a million times easier for the future. :)
Although seeing as me and you are the same age, I'm not much of an expert on this whole kind of stuff. It's just the things I would do
jojo114
Mar 1, 2009, 10:16 AM
Lol thanks so much for your advice I think I might use one of the three but its just that whenenver I try tomake convos I get lost in them and end up not making sense cause I like him too much.. nyways thanks again:)
ghazalaabbas
Mar 1, 2009, 10:50 AM
First of all tell us your sex and his sex. If you are of different sex then the conclusion will be different.
jojo114
Mar 1, 2009, 10:53 AM
Lol I'm a girl he's a boy
NateStone
Mar 2, 2009, 06:16 PM
Hehe no problem hun